I've been friends with this person for a while and I'm not sure if I should still be friends with them or let this person go. He is constantly making false promises such as saying we'll hang out, but then he just forgets about me. He also has a ton of friends- much more than I do-and would rather hang out with them. It makes me wonder if there's somethig wrong with me. We talk online and he always tells me who hes mad at and who he's having a problem with, or if hes upset. I always try and give him the best advice I can and help him. But when I try to talk to him about something, he just seems to not care at all. I'm a good friend to him, but he ignores me and constantly wants to be with his other friends who are more outgoing and talkative than I am. I'm on the quiet side but I'm a better friend to him than most of the other people he hangs out with. In a way he pushes me off to the side. Should we still be friends?
2007-03-04 09:02:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is dumping on you. Let him dump on someone else. this has happened to me plenty times and good ole me forgets and let them do it so i have to catch myself. Be careful if you are caring person about others and a good listener this will always happen to people like us.I don,t know how they do it but they pick us out of the crowd. Good Luck.
2007-03-11 18:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly no beacuse if he doesnt give u the time of day u shouldnt either. if he tries to talk to u just ignore him and he will start to get the picture. all 2gether u should just drop him cause he isnt worth the time or enegy. if he consideres u as a friend then he will ask u for his forgivness and beg for ya to be friends again
2007-03-12 06:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you like this person. I call them uh-hu friends because they ring up and all you get to say is uh-hu. You have choices, one is to tell them how you feel, which I find doesn't work because frankly at this point in time they don't care. Second is to continue uh-hu-ing and to wait for the day they wake up. Works sometimes, third is to quit the relationship. All depends.
2007-03-11 04:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by ehmjt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do if im in that situation is i would ask that person what is up with you acting this way and if he says just forget about it then u should just let him go. if he really want you as a friend he'll spend more time with you. hopefully.
2007-03-04 18:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by brownie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a real friend ,with no drama.You should enjoy the time together ,not who's he's mad at .Life is to short.Just don't bother ,sounds like your doing all the work on the friendship any way
2007-03-04 17:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him how u feel its alwayz good 2 tell a person how u feel and if he doesn't listen jus brush him off vwho need them (boyz) anyway
2007-03-11 18:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Th3 badd3st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋