What happen a Scorpio friend allows me(Virgo) back into his life after he has been hurt by me? Is it sincere or there are other motives? He seems to care and we did put in effort to make up for the things that has happen. Sometimes, I wanted but too afraid to treasure him again.
He feel insecure with me cause I do not review a lot of things to him before. How do I lift the insecurity fm a Scorpio? Is there a need to report every of my single movement to him? Will this insecure feeling turn him to be a more possessive person?
We are close friends. How do I tell he is not feeling anything more than just friends towards me?
2007-03-04 08:58:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Blunt, short, to the point...if you've messed with a Scorpio and they have decided to.. use your own word.."allow" and that's the key, you back into their life...consider it an honor that they will allow you back into their life. Forgiveness is extremely dififcult for most, and I emphasize most, Scorpios, because Scorpio is the only sign to have 3 levels. But consider it an honor, and you must be a very special friend indeed if they once again trust you enough to allow you back into their life. Usually when you have tried to hurt a Scorpio, they never ever forget a hurt or forgive you. Or even if they do forgive, they never forget. Worst thing you can do is bow down and feel you owe them an explanation for your every move. One thing they respect above all is strength of character, which you have already exhibited. Once you feel the need to explain your every move to them translates to you are a weak person trying to earn their admiration. Make them feel they need to earn yours! Catch an attitude! Scorpios always feel the need to master. Act like you are worth alot, and that's how they will treat you!! If he doesn't feel anything more than just friendship for you, then he won't really care what you do with, say, for example, Bill asked me to the movies. It won't bother him. But if he cares about you in a different sense, believe me, he'l question you, Are you sure that's a god idea, kind of thing, or he'll cop an attitude of indifference, or pretend to, just to test your reaction. See, jealousy/possessiveness is a natural trait, whether you're actually his at the time or not. If you sense that in him, chances are he has plans for you that he will not reveal until he completely trusts you and is good and ready to. Why else would he "allow" you back into to his life? Did it ever occur to you that he is insecure and just wants you to think that??? So, let him think that, feel him out, and in the end, listen to your heart. Because one thing a Scorpio, a true one, will never, ever, admit to is beng vulnerable and admitting an ounce of weakness, especially when it comes to their heart. Because as strong as they are, they really do secretely feel rejection. It would mean they were lacking something in some way, and that is just not acceptable to a strong Scorpio.
You didn't mention how you felt you had "hurt" him. That would give a bit more insight. What, you criticized something? Compared him to somebody else? You said you didn't review a lot of things to him before? Did you mean reveal? Don't ever, ever, reveal all your secrets to a Scorpio. That's what keeps them coming back for more; they are the keeper of secrets, know it all, and can't stand it if they don't know it all. See, they want to know all yours, but they will never tell you all theirs. How to keep their interest? Keep secrets!, or pretend to have some!. They love mystery!!!
Okay, I lied. I wasn't short and to the point. I always get carried away even though I do try to keep it short. It's just that when people are looking for answers, they expect some. And it's hard to condense them because there is so much to astrology, (real astrology) and so many things to take into account besides sun signs. And I hate it when people are hurting, and wish I could make their lives magically better. Best I can do is be honest and hope it helps. Not gonna copy and paste from some website that says alot but really says nothing that doesn't apply to 144 million other people on any given day.
2007-03-05 19:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by amiaskan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends upon the scorpio.. I've been hurt by some and have forgiven (I will never forget as it's deep in the back of my mind and I watch for it but I also don't bring the past up)... but there have been a few I have let back into my life who have become great friends or at least people I trust deeply.
Basically to break the insecurity with the scorpio, you will have to fix the problems that caused you two to break up... You don't have to report every single movement as there is a need for some trust.. but apparently he needs to trust you first and it's something I find that both virgos and scorpios have to work thru but once they do and know that nothing is going to happen, the guard will go down more and more.
reading on here and on other sites, you will find the scorpio will be kind of jealous when you are out with opposite sex people, he will keep his eyes focused on you among other things....
Depending upon how he cares about you as a friend will show if he will allow you back into his life... As I live by something that kind of has haunted me for years as a scorp.... Most of my friends, I have gotten into fights with (verbal that has ruined the friendship) at least once over something.. but those people are usually the ones that I wind up becoming better friends with as the friendship was renewed with a better understanding on both sides after I find...
2007-03-04 10:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by gearbox 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I could only speak for myself, but I'm a scorpio. If I would allow someone back into my life - take for example an ex partner, I've other motives. In other words, it means I want them back again. If it's just a friend, I'd just forgiven them.
Generally, if someone hurts me beyond reparation of trust, I'll never let them into my life again. If I do, it only means I have to get along with them for some reason... or cause they said something and they were right and I was wrong, but that's different.
2007-03-04 09:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u lose the trust of a Scorpio ...things will never b the same
2007-03-04 09:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Lollie ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
they usually expect to run things....they can sting when mad...you dont sound like you want him.....Hes better off with a Pisces....and you need a Capricorn.. Its not insecurity sounds like he doesnt trust you....i dont blame him....you said you hurt him...
2007-03-04 10:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
payback is a b$3tc$h....with a scorpio......they NEVER forget.....i would be real careful with this one........
they do not forgive easily........and you sound as if you are insecure......move on......and dont hurt him again........best that way.
2007-03-04 09:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by STARZ 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋