Me, my mother, and my brother are all moving this summer after I finnish middle school. Some of my friends have been acting phony lately, and I wanna see if my friends would really miss me. So I plan to tell them that I'm moving early, and I wanna see their reactions, so...is this a good idea to see who's my real friends and who's not?
2007-03-04 08:52:35 · 13 answers · asked by bbnicole104 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you won't know who your real friends are until you move. the ones that keep in touch with you are the ones that are true. if you tell everyone now it probalby won't make a difference. i would advise you to tell people now though. it will get the ones who will truly miss you some time to cope before you go.
2007-03-04 08:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your details are not quite clear. Are they acting phony cos of your moving? If yes, be careful with what you are about to do. Friendship can be dangerous game. Friends come and go very fast. I suggest you take the initiative to ask them why they have been acting strange around you and tell them honestly it has been hurting you especially as you have to deal with moving from home and friends. You totally need their support and would like to spend the remaining time to appreciate and cherish the friendship. I think that is rather better idea. Putting your friend through test is risky. Genuine friends care.
2007-03-04 09:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you move you will who is your friend. If they want to keep in touch they would write or call you on the phone, those would be the one you call friends. For now though, it’s hard to tell the difference because everyone would say they’ll miss you and all.
2007-03-04 09:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...not a good idea. It's never a good idea to play games to test folks. Just be yourself. Those who are your friends will be your friends and those who aren't will be revealed.
Just be your great self and let life takes it course.
2007-03-04 08:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by KERMIT M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No!!! That's game playing. The way I see it, is if you want to play games, there will always be a winner and there will always be a loser. Who wants to live life like that?
2007-03-04 11:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Miss La La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, at that age there are a lot of "phony" friends.
2007-03-04 09:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by chp 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just think that if you think you have to this to prove to yourself who's real and who's just playin you should be the answer right there!If they r your friends you shouldn't have to be sneaky and quiz them to findout how they really are.right????
2007-03-04 08:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that could and most likely will make them mad at you and thhey might not want to be your friend anymore.....i sugguset you just enjoy them while u still can because you woudn't want to leave friendless
2007-03-04 08:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by K-LA 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its stupid ur gonna move soon n e way, so what does it matter who's ur real friends or not
2007-03-04 09:01:32 · answer #9 · answered by princess cc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it is. Good luck and i hope you find out what you need to know.
2007-03-04 08:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋