I have a friend she is very disgusting she likes bad mouthing me and she doesn't treat no one else like this but me if it was someone else she wouldn't bad mouth them like that. she treats people dirty and right know she is having the time of her life I hate that she is so happy its like "what comes around goes around" don't work She treats people like crap and she likes it. I just want what she does to people to go back to her or something bad to happen to her she needs to have a taste of her own medicine.
2007-03-04 08:32:55 · 9 answers · asked by Ana T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is doing this to feel good about herself.
She is getting it from somewhere and she is unloading on anyone she can find.
She has not learned yet that no one will want to stay near someone with a negative vibe.
People do not want to stay around people who make them "feel bad"
What is she doing for you? She must be fulfilling SOMETHING in your life. If all she did was take, and make you feel bad all the time, you would avoid her like the plague.
What you want is justice. You feel like there is an imbalance, and you want to balance it. This is not a bad thing to feel.
Sometimes, however, you are not in a position to balance things.
Things will balance on their own. I know you think "What comes around goes around" does not work, but that is because you are looking at too short of a time in your life.
It may take YEARS.
NO ONE can survive in a relationship without giving something to the other.
She has a defect in her personality.
I knew a person who had serious defects in her personality. It took years for it to catch up with her.
She had a penchant for finding guys that were worthless because she believed she was worthless, and they were the only people who would love her.
One murdered her, strangled her.
Her defect killed her.
Your friend has a defect that may have her beaten and killed if she does it to the wrong person.
She may learn the hard way.
Just be careful what you wish for. You might get it. She may learn soon enough.
2007-03-04 08:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by There you are∫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not your friend, she's an attention hound. She needs to be the center of attention at all times, usually due to poor self esteem, and she doesn't care how. Ignore her. In time others will grow tired of her as well and she will not be able to get the attention she craves.
2007-03-04 16:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not your friend, honey. She is either jealous person or insecure about herself that the only way she feels better is to say negative things about others. If I were you, I would not put her as important people on my list. She would be long gone
2007-03-04 16:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to that person. She is not your friend and you do not deserve to be treated like crap!!!
2007-03-04 16:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can stop being her or his friend. Try finding some other and better friend. OR when she did something mean,tell on the teacher.
2007-03-04 16:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by justine w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her one punch on her jaw knock her the fck out
2007-03-04 16:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you calling this person your friend? You have a warped sense of what a friendship is.
2007-03-04 16:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Redawg J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! just give it a while it's coming slowly but surely.
2007-03-04 16:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to her and see if she likes the taste (lol)
2007-03-04 16:44:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋