Help plz!!!!?

Question

ok my name is abby and im 13. i have this friend he is kinda emo( ex cutter) his name is spencer( he is 14) and he is hot, yes he is hot, and i know im calling my best friend hot-.-. anyway we have been together for our like whole enire lives, we never really seperated.we would come and talk to each other about our problems,. i would do anything for him, i love him very much like a brother. but im moving and now Spencer is depressed again and is strating to cutt him self again.( im the only reason he stopped cutting before he said) so now im really worried about him !!ALOT i love him and i dont want to leave and seeing him cry right in front of me is tearing me apart!! help me plz what do i do???!!

Answer 1

first if your moving, then see how far, if it's not then convince your parents to let you go back to see him every weekend or so. you might have to convince him to stop cutting himself. that is going to make him more depressed. tell him that it hurts you to know that he hurts himself intentionally, it might make him stop. other than that there's really nothing else to do unless you can convince your parents not to move

Answer 2

thats very sad. Im sorry about your bestfriend. but the only way you can help him is to tell him that cutting himself isnt the solution. If you move, he gotta be strong because not all the time you will be there to save him. thats how life is. You gotta talk to him and make him understand that he gotta be nice to himself and the only thing you want him to do for you and stop cutting and hurting himself because it hurts you too. Make him promise and when you move call him often to check how he's doing that way he wont be depressed cus he's talking to you.

good luck honey!

Answer 3

ask him y he's cutting himself.try 2 solve the problem and wen u move cal EVERYDAY!try and visit if u can. hope i helped