well im think im ready to tell my best friend that im bi shes really understanding about it and dosent treat our other friend that is any different but im still nervious about telling her how should i do i dont think i get just plain out say it
2007-03-04 08:23:19 · 7 answers · asked by emily 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I wouldnt say the same thing with Juan, because I know that one wants to share her feelings with her best friends, even if she's not the point of your interest. If that's a real friend, I dont really believe things may be that difficult. I explained my state (being a bi) to my two best friends via msn by driving the matter directly to it, after having started all coincidentally. It's just if u really are ready you dont need much initiative. Dont be so scared, our friends are if not all a lot like us, so I'm sure she'd be an understanding and tolerating person..
2007-03-04 08:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by ddyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thankfully she's understanding.
Now, first, understand that I'm straight and that I can only guess what it's like to come out. Just have your friend sit down next to you (alone if you want) and tell her either bit by bit or all at once (whichever one you prefer). In any case, good luck!
2007-03-04 22:44:51 · answer #2 · answered by ldnester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think your sexuality is really something you need to announce, just dont hide away from it. dont lie about it if someone mentions something. if you have said to your friend 'i am straight' then it might be better to tell her because then u have lied to her. if not, she was just making assumptions. just maybe mentioning wanting to date a certain member of the same sex and you'll get to see her react.
2007-03-04 17:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by bippidibopiddi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to make a big deal out of it. You can always just say something in a conversation that outs you like, "That guys alright, but the girl with him is hot!"
2007-03-04 21:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her simply and offer no apology because you have nothing to apologize for. Don't make a big scene about doing it. You'll be fine.
Good luck and congratulations!
2007-03-04 17:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by heathboy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are ready then u shuld tel ur friend. if she treats u differently then shes not a true friend
2007-03-04 16:40:51 · answer #6 · answered by bestfriend 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't owe your friend an explanation of your sexuality. You can if you want to, but it really has nothing to do with her, unless she is what you're interested in.
2007-03-04 16:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋