There's this girl named Jen*, and a guy named Jim* (names are changed) I used to be good friends w/ them but they changed and they won't do anything but make fun of me and i don't even bother them! I told my parents and friends and even the school counselor but nothing has changed except that the situation is getting worse... What should i do?
2007-03-04 08:22:49 · 6 answers · asked by L.A. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
PUT THEM ON TOTAL IGNORE. DON'T COME DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND BE IGNORANT LIKE THEM. HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH AND KEEP ON GOING. MOST TROUBLE MAKERS HATE BEING IGNORED, SO IF YOU JUST IGNORE THEM THEY ARE NOT GETTING THE ATTENTION THEY ARE STRIVING TO GET...GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-04 08:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by halfpint22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best and only thing you can do is to ignore them. They are bullies and bullies need to see a reaction from their victims. Take away the reaction and all you have is two people acting the fool and spouting off at the mouth. Find new friends and live your own life. Don't eve give them the pleasure of existing in your eyes. They will eventually move on to someone else.
2007-03-04 08:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by fly guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant change them, they are horrible kids that tries to make ur life miserable just because they have a crappy life... be strong and let the words they say to u slide off you... YOU know who u are... they cant make u feel bad if u know ur special and ur loved .... I cant believe the school counselor wouldnt help... I would go back to the counselor and demand her to tell the principal to get them expelled for harrassing you, ask ur parents go to school with you and talk to them... they are there to protect you....take care ok.... and hope things get better...
2007-03-04 08:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say shrug it off.
Pretend that whatever they say is not worth your time,
Find new friends with more class. In absence of being able to make new friends easily join a club or activity that they are not involved with.
If they physically bully you, look to see if you can get another school or complain much more aggressively to the school. (In fact, if its really bad, I'd say get your parents to threaten to sue the school.)
2007-03-04 08:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is ignore it. That'll irk them. Don't let them see it bothers you.
Those two have issues. They're probably jealous about something.
2007-03-04 08:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had friends with this. I dumped them. I am much happier now. Never fun having fake friends.
2007-03-04 08:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋