Please help sex?

Question

can anyone tell me all about sex like does it hurt and all the sicknesses you can get how it is done just tell me everything about it

Answer 1

Get Lloyd to tell you all about it.



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Answer 2

The first time you have intercourse, it is going to be a little painful. Every woman has a thin membrane in her vagina ,the hymen and when the man penetrates her, it is torn. There will be a small amount of blood. After the first time, it gets much better.

If you are having sex for the first time, make sure you are certain it is something you want to do and not just to hang on to a guy. If you do decide to have sex, make him wear a condom (no excuses). It would be a good idea for you to go to your local clinic or Planned Parenthood and have a gynecological exam and get on some type of birth control as well.

You can contract many STD's from having unprotected sex: without a condom. HIV, Herpes, Genital Warts, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis and many others. There is no cure for HIV and it will kill you eventually. There is no cure for Herpes or Warts and you will have to be on treatment for the rest of your life. The others are treatable with antibiotics, but can lead to future problems, such as infertility, frequent bladder and kidney infections.

The other issue is the fact that you can get pregnant. Obviously, if you need to ask this type of question, you are not mature enough to be a parent.

Please think about your decision before you have sex. Abstinence is the best, but if you choose to have sex, please protect yourself

Answer 3

I several things to say about this. First of all it sounds like you maybe to young to have sex, but want to know more about? This is normal to be curious about it. Do you have anyone who is older and you truly trust that can sit down with you and answer any questions you may have about it? Sex is not something to take lightly. It is a serious decision to make and make sure you are totally and completely ready for it. Also, yes it can hurt, but if you have a considerate partner that will try to make you as comfortable as possible by taking it slow and easy. Also, I truly believe that as female you are responsible for your body and what you do with it and to it. What I mean once you make the decision to have sex make sure you have a condom. Don't depend on your partner to have protection. Sex can be very beautiful and a great experience but only when two people are truly connected. Sex isn't just an act it also involves emotion. Take your take and make sure you are ready for it and don't ever, ever and I repeat ever let anyone pressure you into it. This is something very serious and should never be taking lightly. Always protect yourself by making sure you are in control of the protection, such as condoms. There's is nothing shameful or embarrassing about wanting to be in control over your own body and by protecting yourself from an unwanted pregnancy or for sexual transmitted dieses. I wish you luck as you seek the answers you are looking for and I beg of you to be careful in any choice you do eventually take.

Answer 4

well this sound like something you should be asking a close friend that may have dont it already. Or your mom or an aunt. The first time does hurt sometimes. You sometimes bleed for alittle bit but its ok. My first time was at a really young age though and i felt "dirty". I felt like everyone knew that i wasnt a virgin and i hated that feeling. You can get all kinds of things from it if you are not carefull. If you do decide to use protecten. Preferable a trogen cus they dont rip as easy. But even that sometimes doesnt work at keeping away STDs. So think long and hard about this before you take that step.

Answer 5

Talk to your doctor or someone at your local health department. Sex isn't a bad thing but you are smart about wanting to learn about it beforehand. Just remember that women love with their minds, heart and body and are more prone to get hurt than men so take your time and talk to somebody in person. Decide what you want in a partner and don't settle for less and remember that it is okay to say no to sex. And whoever you sleep with you are sharing all of their previous partners if they had any STD's etc. I'm not trying to scare you but you sound like you are on the right track and I am hoping you will follow through and talk to someone and get answers to your questions.

Answer 6

ok well yeah it does hurt you first time but rnt you to young to ask these questions if you dont know baou tit alreay well anyways it hurts the first time and yeah you can get sick but thats from either getting pregnant or getting one of the stds from having unprtected sex. if you are thinking of having sex make sure that you have pretection i may be 15 but i know alot about this stuff anyways you should talk to your mom or dad or gaurdian about it or even a friend if you are embarressed to go to you parents and or guardian anyways yeah well i dont think i really want to get into how its done really but there is a BIG chance of you getting pregnant after unprotected sex and if you are young it pretty much ruins you highschool reputation. there a less chance of getting pregnant with correct use of a condom but if you get into the situation and you dont feel comfortable i would stop because that means you are not ready yet and well even if it feels righ toyu might not be ready but you can go to websites and they wil tell you what happens during sex and what might happen after sex i dont have any on my mind yet but you can yahoo search it and look for the most apropriat website to check out or you can even go to the library closest to your home or school and check out a book on intercourse that will be the most efficent and if you are afraid to check it out you should just say its for a project or even just sit at a table and read it.... well good luck hope this helps you a bit

Answer 7

AFTER READING EVERYTHING, AM WONDERING ARE YOU REALLY 9 YRS OLD??? AND IF SO WHY AT YOUR AGE WANT TO KNOW HOW SEX IS AND IF THIS HURTS???

BUT THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION IS THAT YES IT HURTS A BIT. BUT WHEN ITS DONE WITH REAL LOVE BETWEEN 2 PEOPLE EVEN THOUGH THERE IS PAIN, THE PAIN TRANSFORM IN TO EMOTIONAL FEELING AND THE BOND 2 PEOPLE SHARE IS AMAZING.

Answer 8

I personally do not think the Internet is the proper place to address this. You need to take a sex education class and talk to your mother. This is a very serious, and can be dangerous time in your life to be making and learning about the pleasures and consequences of sex. Now with Aids and all of the STDs you can be literally making a life and death decision.

Answer 9

let me tell you do not try to grow up to fast and if your asking this question .you are young lady.so let me tell you it hurt so much you don't know if to cry or scream..but you should not even be asking this question you should go to a aunt or a person that .well answerer all your question.but be smart and get to know your self and your body and what is the rush....there well be a time for that right now be smart go to school .be someone that you be proud of your self..never forget think of number and that is (You)

Answer 10

Do it only when you are ready and make sure to use protection at all times. It only hurts the first time, if it hurts anytime after that then you are not relaxing your body. Make sure though that you are ready for it

Answer 11

Yes, if Lloyd hasn't told you, you're going with the wrong guy. He's probably trying to take advantage of such a naive one as you.