How Do Girls ( females ) Reach Orgasm ??

Question

How do girls reach orgasm ??? I don't even know what it is that much. So can someone tell what it is and how you reach it ???

Answer 1

Here's a good definition, but a little technical.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm#Human_female_orgasm

Here's how to get one.

http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation_howto.htm

hope that helps.

Answer 2

Wikipedia Orgasm

Answer 3

Orgasm is the big shudder at the end of sexual intercourse OR masturbation, and usually it not only feels pleasant, it's accompanied by an increase in vaginal secretion (clear slippery fluid) similar to a man's ejaculation. Romance novels like to use a lot of metaphors to describe a female orgasm, but it can vary - as the nerve endings react to stimulus, it can produce a feeling like a starburst spreading through the labia, clitoris, lower abdomen, and pelvic area; a warm sensation that spreads incredibly fast; a rush of heat and pleasantly tickling feelings. Often, women (girls) need to to stimulate the clitoris to achieve the orgasm. The clitoris is located within the folds of the labia, right above the place where urine exits the body. When aroused, the clitoris becomes harder and rounder, similar to a male penis. Many girls find that it's more effective (meaning: enjoyable) to not only stimulate the clitoris by rubbing it gently, but also to touch the sensitive areas around it - the skin within and outside the labia, along the edge of the vagina, and the inner thighs. All these surfaces become highly sensitive during arousal. There are other areas known as 'erogenous zones', and they can include the neck, the breasts and/or nipples, toes, fingers - it varies according to personal preference. Also, there is the 'G-spot' - a cluster of nerves just within the vagina, behind the clitoris; it can be difficult to find, though. Some women prefer an orgasm resulting from stimulation of the cervix. In addition, women tend to need to feel an emotional connection to someone to be aroused - not just an image, like a picture of a sexy man, (or a sexy woman, if she is lesbian), but a sense of connection, such as imagining that sexy person is their perfect mate.
To reach an orgasm, then, often it helps to start with an image. Visualizing one's perfect partner in a romantic setting is helpful, or reading one of those romance novels to feed your imagination! Warm surroundings are ideal - under a heap of scented blankets, in the bathtub, with the heat up - there's a reason why cold showers are known to turn people off! Then, you start gently rubbing the clitoris. You can do this with a finger using the labia as a cushion, so you're not actually touching the clitoris (it's really sensitive, so finger rubbing on its own can be unpleasant). A vibrator is also helpful, although holding it too long on the clitoris can make it numb and reduce the quality of the orgasm; touching it around the sensitive folds of the labia, or even inserting it a short way into the vagina is effective sometimes. Your object is to keep touching and rubbing with pressure that feels good to you, so if someone else is doing the touching, be open and honest about whether they're touching the right spots and if they're using the right touch - a lover will be happier if he/she knows that you are happy, too. Many women especially enjoy their lover's tongue applied to their clitoris and labia; it's soft, and of the same type of tissue, so it's not going to feel bad. As the pleasant feelings get stronger, touch in a rhythmic motion; you may find your hips start moving, too. Your muscles in the pelvis will start clenching. Some girls find it helps to flex their vaginal muscles; this is also known as Keigel exercises, and doing so makes the sensation stronger. It's like having a big itch and scratching feels really, really good. It ends when you have that spreading warmth, rush of heat, or starburst feeling - like a small explosion, even, and your muscles all relax. And you know you've had it because you're smiling.

Some good media references are movies like "Better than Chocolate", many episodes of Sex and the City, and Dr. Sue.

Answer 4

Orgasm Wiki

Answer 5

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How Do Girls ( females ) Reach Orgasm ??
How do girls reach orgasm ??? I don't even know what it is that much. So can someone tell what it is and how you reach it ???

Answer 6

well since all the people here think you are too young... i'll tell you because u need to learn either way. orgasm is different for everyone.. but it feels good. most popular way to get it is masturbate. playing with yourself. girls rub themselves.. (im not going into detail) and you start going faster and faster .. theres many ways to do it...but and then all of a sudden you feel this tingling sensation down there.. thats it. and sumtimes you might find weird fluids that youre not used to. but thats pretty much it. sometimes your hand may get tired so just stop and keep going. it might be hard to get the first time.

Answer 7

The best way to reach it is by yourself if you've never experienced one before (it's also the safest!)
I don't know how old you are, but you should def talk to somebody close to you that you feel comfortable talking to about stuff like this...it won't be as bad as you think!

Answer 8

wellll..... u can masterbate if ur not ready to have s*x yet. it will help u reach orgasm. i sure hope u know what masterbation is, if u dont, its fingerering urself down there. playing with ur vag*na and soon u c u m and then u get an orgasm, i enjoy it :P

Answer 9

You should ask your mom. It sounds like you're kinda young. I'd tell ya if I knew your age..

Answer 10

try rubbing ur clit.. and if that doesnt work, let me come over and lick it. and if that doesnt work im sorry