orgasim than for a man?
2007-03-04 07:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by Sugar 7 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I have talked to many women who say they have never had one.
2007-03-04 08:26:25 · update #1
Several reasons.
One is biological. A man HAS to have an orgasm (or at least an ejaculation of sperm) in order to fertilize the egg. Since its imperitive that we achieve the result, and because we dwell on the possibility alot (in the guise of getting sex) we are better prepared for it to happen.
Since a woman's orgasm is, technically, not needed for procreation, it shifts from being a biological problem to becoming a psychological and social one. And because women are taught to engage emotionally first, before engaging physically, if they are not being engaged emotionally, they will not develop the assurance to become engaged physically.
Imagine, if you will, a man standing outside a house. A woman is on the other side of the locked door. The man's primary goal is physical, to get in the house. Because it is the primary goal, the emotional goal of what to do when inside the house, or even what is inside of the house, becomes secondary.
The woman is already in the house, so that is not her primary goal. Her primary goal is to make sure whoever she lets in the house is going to respect and take care of it (emotional). Once she is 'assured' that whoever is coming in is going to respect the house, the assurance now frees her to worry about the 'physical' aspects of the house (now I have someone to help replace the windows, or pick out different furniture, or decide what wallpaper to hang, or do I even like wallpaper).
Men worry about sex, and let the love take care of itself, while women worry about love and let the sex take care of itself.
2007-03-04 08:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Khnopff71 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So far, most of the answers are BS. I don't Think it is harder for a woman. Many men have the same problem but in the woman's case, some have multiple orgasms, others have one and some have none. Some women simply don;t know how to let go and enjoy themselves and others have been taught not to...that its dirty or something. And then some men are only concerned with their own pleasure. its really a complex question with all kinds of possible answers. I always try to insure my mate is satisfied to completion. But I'm just one man.
2007-03-04 16:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by sarge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are like a diesel in the winter. It takes a while for them to warm up. You guys need alot of good foreplay to orgasm. Us guys are ready in liteally a couple seconds.
Or so I've heard... I'm a 20 year old virgin.
2007-03-04 16:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only dated one woman that never had an orgasm but she was very insecure about sex. I think when you just let yourself go you will be able to relax and if US MEN are doing it right, you should have no problem :) sometimes its physical but most the time it is all in the head .
2007-03-04 16:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by TriSec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God created man first. Women learned from him.
2007-03-04 16:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have lower libidos than men.
Also, since men are the movers and shakers in sex, they have to guarantee their partner's orgasm, as well as their own.
It's mainly sex drive though.
2007-03-04 16:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by callum828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see we have the same interest.
2007-03-04 19:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt kno that it was. All the girls ive been with had no problems...
2007-03-04 15:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
orally or otherwise?i'm curious too
2007-03-04 16:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
distrust that's why i don't. Paranoid that's what i am.
2007-03-04 16:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋