I want to take my friend to Indiana Beach with me, but now she cant go! She said she wasnt gonna go in the 1st place becauz i am bringing my bf!!I am tired of all this fighting and i cant keep choosing!! SOMEONE PLZ HELP!!
2007-03-04 07:45:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, your boyfriend was willing to go along with her, so she should be willing to go along with him. The only reason this would be a problem, is if you originally made the plans only with her as a girls thing. Then there should be no guys, period. Also, keep in mind that she might not be jealous - she might just not be comfortable being the third wheel, which is totally understandable. She isn't making you choose, she's deciding for herself not to go. And that's okay, as long as everyone's being mature about it.
2007-03-04 07:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she would feel uncomfortable or out of place around your bf. If she doesn't want to go, then there's nothing you can do to make her. Chances are that if you do get her to come, you'll be miserable because of all the hard feelings. So call her up, tell her that if she still wants to come she can, and move on.
Some things just can't be helped.
2007-03-04 15:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by kelsey_b4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is tired of being put on the back-burner.
Instead of bringing your BF everywhere, spend some time with your friend.
It seems that you're probably not spending as much time with them as you used to, and that can be very hurtful.
Tell your BF that you need to spend some alone time with your friend.
YOU DON'T NEED TO BE WITH HIM 24/7!!!
And if he doesn't understand, he's not worth your time.
Boyfriends will come and go, but good friends last forever.
2007-03-04 15:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probaably jealous of your bf getting more attention then her, you should try to make her feel more important and when you are with your bf and shes their too try to get her in your conversations. or mayb u should jus stop asking her.
YA AND another thing i forgot to say is the person above somewhere is right about maybe yur bes fren has some feeling that yur bf doznt like her, you know the same thing happened to me when mi best friend got a new bf i felt all left out and stuff and he never talked to me but only her. its kind of awkward like you dont know if he wants you there.
2007-03-04 15:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she really can't go, due to school, work, or family obligations.
Or maybe she feels like she'll be the "third wheel" vacationing with you and your boyfriend, and that would be understandably uncomfortable.
Do you really think she has a secret crush on your boyfriend?
She could be jealous that your boyfriend takes up so much of your time that you have less alone time for her, but I doubt she's jealous in a "I have feelings for him" kind of way.
2007-03-04 15:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds more like she has a crush on you, I think you should shy away from the friendship because she either wants you for herself or if shes that posessive of your friendship than she needs to get a grip and get a life. But the friend might be on to something, she might know something about your boyfriend that you don't know and has your best interest at heart. Either way I wouldn't want someone tagging along on a trip for me and my man. Ya think? Maybe take a breather from both and see what happens going solo.
2007-03-04 15:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
who do you think will be there for the longest your freind or your bf thats how you decide to be loyal and another key thing. does your freind weird out about everyone who gets more attention than her. this may be a sign that she will always interfear and if that is the case how do you expect to have a marraige someday. and keep in mind as soon as she finds a man she is crazy about she will forget all about you for a while.
2007-03-04 15:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by B vitamins leafy veggie protien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's feeling left out, she's used to being your main focus, and she's having a hard time making the adjustment, do what you can to help her realize she's still important to you, make time to spend just you and her.
If that don't work, I'm not sure if she'll ever let go. You might have to distance yourself from her and let her adjust.
2007-03-04 15:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mystee_Rain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has a sixth sense about your B/F that you can't see cuz you're blinded by love/lust. Ask her what it is about the B/F that she doesn't like and be open and mature to her answers. Or you could drag her on the Dr. Phil show.
2007-03-04 15:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by six3x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous. If she was your friend she wouldn't mind hanging with you and your bf. why don't you ask your bf to bring a friend a long and get her involved with some one else other then you. Good Luck
2007-03-04 15:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by BBW 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋