I used to be really happy, i used to be really carefree and loved everything i could do! Now i feel like my life is a competition. I love all my friends to pieces but don't feel like i can talk to them anymore- they have all seemed to move on, they have all got other people they can share things with! Other people who they are closer to and who they would rather talk to! We don't go out much because they all have boy friends and other commitments. I am studying at college at the moment- struggling on with my courses plus two part time weekend jobs and three after school clubs! I just feel like everyone has moved on and left me behind! What should i do? Please dont tell me i am being a typical teenager because i swear hardly anyone could feel as miserable as i do sometimes! I'm not close with my family- i've lost my close friends!
2007-03-04 07:32:24 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what you're feeling is completely normal. But did you ever stop to think that maybe it wasn't your friends losing touch with you as much as you losing touch with your friends? You say they have other commitments and boyfriends and etc. but it sounds to me as though with college, 2 part time jobs and 3 after school clubs that you would be the one that doesn't have time. You have a LOT on your plate right now and personally I think it may be wise if you cut back a bit. You're wearing yourself out and driving yourself crazy making yourself think that your friends have abandoned you when it sounds to me as though you're the one who has a life to full for friends. If you're working 2 part-time jobs on the weekends, obviously you don't have the weekends to hang out. 3 after school clubs, that meet once a week each, really only leaves you 2 days out of the week for a personal life of your own. And when you think about it, that gives you a slim chance at a personal life after studying for your college courses the other 2 nights out of the week, because of course your friends will have other obligations as well that may fall on atleast 1 of the 2 nights you have available. So maybe scale back on the clubs. That should give you more time for a personal life.
2007-03-04 07:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by shainamarie20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to them more often and maybe theyll start to like u again. u really dont need a b/f to hang out with ur other friends either. so go and if they dont hang out wiht u still go find other friends.
2007-03-04 07:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by tonya d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because ur 2 busy try and balance things out as best as u can maybe that will help
2007-03-04 07:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by goodies make the boys jump on it 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋