I got my cell phone, tv, and iPod taken away because i yelled at my mom and that I don't get to get my hair layered and my highlights redone today??? I am bored out of my mind!!!
I am NOT spoiled, my cell phone is a pantech c3, my TV is an old one that I have to use an antenna for, and my iPod is the 2G shuffle!!!
2007-03-04 07:22:41 · 27 answers · asked by .... 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i am seriously NOT spoiled!!! Those are the only things that I basically have that mean something to me!!! okay, you would only know if you were in my shoes!!!
2007-03-04 07:31:21 · update #1
How old are you?
I don't understand why you would yell at your mom. You may not be spoiled, but apparently your parent(s) have let you have a cell phone, tv (old or not), and an IPod. And you get to have your hair done. Why are you yelling?
Yelling at your parent is disrespectful. You had to have another option. Parents have a lot to deal with, and it is a rare teen that realizes this, and tries to make things easier for them.
Like not giving them a hard time.
It doesn't seem fair to you, but no parent wants to be yelled at. Especially not from their own child.
When you have a bad, difficult or frustrating day do you really want someone to yell at you? Even if your day is going well, do you want someone to ruin it by raising their voice at you and getting upset?
Go, breathe, and think about the situation next time. Do you have to yell? Can you try to sit down and have a quiet talk with mom? Listen (really listen) to what she is telling you without jumping in with your side.
Don't be defensive, be understanding, even if you feel that the subject is the most important thing in the world to you. Remember: if she works, give her an hour to relax and wind down, then talk to her. If waiting doesn't fit your schedule, you could be trying to talk to someone who just had a horrific day at work. Or their first great day in a year.
Be calm, and be prepared to accept whatever she tells you, even if you don't like it. Then make your point. But don't go in looking for a fight: you may get one.
You want a calm reasonable mom, and she deserves a calm reasonable daughter.
If you get upset, apologize immediately, and ask if you can continue after you have calmed down. If she yells, don't yell back. Ask if you can go to your room; kick back & listen to your favorite music (headphones), until you relax. It would be nice if she did too. Then try again.
And make an effort to see things from her point of view. Parents often see and understand more than teens give them credit for, but teens rarely see their situation from the parents side.
Hope this hope this helps!
2007-03-04 08:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by 1985 & going strong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady I have shoes that are older than you are, and probably better behaved.
If I had yelled at my Mom, well I wouldn't be typing this unless I was using my nose because my Mother would have jerked my arms off and beat me silly with the bloody ends.
Now go apologize to your mother and take your medicine like a big kid.
OMG you have a TV with an antenna. Oh you poor mistreated person.
2007-03-04 07:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're life would not suck if you just didn't yell at your mom. I know you may not see eye to eye on everything, but your mother deserves respect. Even when you don't agree with her, don't yell at her. You'll be happy because you won't get all your things taken away and she won't be hurt because her daughter is yelling and disrespecting her. Just try it next time. Words can really do some damage on hearts. Don't hurt her. I'm sure she's doing the best she can.
2007-03-04 07:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Butterfly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone said you were spoiled. I thought it was nice that you still have your computer. I'm sure your mom loves you a lot. She probably just wants you to respect her.
2007-03-04 07:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by mrsfloridalady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't yell at your momma, my kids would lose that stuff if they did that to me. Apologize and give her a big hug.. you only have 1 mom, treat with respect.
My kids earn that stuff for being good, if they act up you better believe I'm gonna take it away. I tell them until they are out on their own, Everything they own I own.
2007-03-04 07:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're lucky. The last time my kid yelled at his Mom I picked him up by the collar and slammed him donw on his feet so hard his mouth slammed shut and he chipped a tooth. Yelling at Mom is a no no.
2007-03-04 07:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by mustanger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you do sound like a spoiled girl. Just don't shout at your mom again. You have to respect your parents so that you earn their respect!
2007-03-04 07:28:32 · answer #8 · answered by N.S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would still say that you are spoiled. And why are you posting this question more than once? It is fair. You shouldn't have yelled at her. That's all.
2007-03-04 07:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well who gave them to you???....if it was your mom then yeah you deserve it for yelling at her. and yeah you are spoiled. even if it is an old tv, etc. there are still people in this country who don't even have enough food
2007-03-04 07:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by The Spazz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋