MY SIS IS PREGNANT AND MY MOM IS KICKING OUT OF THE HOUSE. MY MOM AND I HAVE A REALLY BAD REALTIONSHIP, SHE TREATS ME LIKE NOTHING WHEN IM ALONE WITH HER. SOMETIME SHE DOESNT EVEN GIVE ME THE LOVE I WANT. AND MY SIS DOES....SHE IS LIKE MY MOM, BEST FRIEND, AND THE GREATEST SIS EVER!!! BUT I KNOW MY MOM WONT ALLOW IT. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-03-04 07:13:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depends how old you are, if you are out of high school, can get a job, and feel you need to be there for your sister, i would go with her. i know what its like to have an unloving mother, and it can really hurt you mentally later in life. If you are ready to help you sis make a home for her and the baby to be, go for it! You have to be stable enough to make it on your on though, in case you cant handle the baby...because i doubt your mom will let you back. If you are not out of high school...finish school! You can always be there for your sis mentally! The biggest question is, is she ready for a baby? Adoption/ abortion...throw some ideas her way..support her no matter what! goodluck
2007-03-04 07:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ashes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let your sister's situation ruin your life, be a kid--she got herself into this, and dragging you into it isn't really good for your emotional health, you're a free agent--stay that way--this time will pass .you are young and should be involved in sports, and friends, not babies-unless you want to throw away your youth for being a built -in babysitter, the she can always hang it over you that she gave you a home, and make you feel guilty for ever wanting to leave-and what about when some guy comes to see her--you'll be there, of course they'll check out the kid sister-that won't be a good scene for a young girl like yourself. and your mom knows that. you can't see the whole picture but your sister isn't the best role model for you. ''unmarried mother'' give me a break. she should be encourging you to plan for college, etc. if she really cared for you.
2007-03-04 07:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what to tell you, but maybe if you go live with your sister for a while, and help her out with her pregnacy, then come back to your mom, things might cool down, and you'll realize how much you mean to her, and how much she means to you. Even if you don't feel like she means anything to you and visa versa.
2007-03-04 07:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by sweetlkecndy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer depends on your age and your sisters age and how you will both be financially supported. As you didn't say anything about these no-one can advise you sensibly
2007-03-04 07:17:40 · answer #4 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are under 18 you have to do what your mother says - your sister will have enough trouble supporting herself and her child - she will not be able to pay for you also - just because your sister moves out does not mean you cannot still be close to her!!
2007-03-04 07:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shopaholic Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think you should live with your sis if shes pregnant because she would want to start her own family in her own house. but if she wants you to be there, than great. =)
2007-03-04 07:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur over 18 do it apperently ur mom isnt ur boss n/e more and she dosent love u like she ussed to.
2007-03-04 07:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your mum is that bad to you, and if your sister invites you to live with her, do go there
2007-03-04 07:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Adam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you support yourself and your sister ? then go for it.
2007-03-04 07:19:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋