my brothers wife just moved into our house after spending a year in jail. they have one kid together. the thing is she has no aspirations to become a better person. it was a shock she just came with my bother yesterday and he said she wqas moving in. she used to do crystal meth like alot. today she was talking about doing drugs together she was telling me if i know anyone that sells weed at school. and she even showed me some crystal she has and asked me if i want to try it.
im so confused i dont know what to do. im worried for my brother and his kid.
my brother is currently attending the police academy and just trying to do the best for his family.
i really don know what to do.
please give me some advice
2007-03-04 06:58:00 · 4 answers · asked by john r 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
You and your family do not need that kind of trouble in your house. Tell your parents and brother what she did to you ( offer you drugs) and tell her to go get help for her drug problem and leave you alone.
2007-03-04 07:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by annazzz1966 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though this might not be what you want to hear, unfortunately it is your brother's decision to give the lady an ultimatum so that she can get her act straight. You should talk to your brother and tell him how you feel. Another thing that you can do is make it very clear that you don't want anything to do with drugs and that you are no interested so that she doesn't talk to you about that. Other than that, there isn't much you can do. She needs to understand that she's an addict and that she needs help, and your brother needs to make a decision, because she's going to start affecting his life pretty soon too.
2007-03-04 07:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yenlys h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell your brother what is happening. Of course he might not believe you but it is a chance you have to take. IF he doesn't believe you try to find something to prove that you are not lying, like taking a picture of her while she is doing drugs or record her talking about it.
If you don't speak up soon you brother could be hooked on drugs. So u need to move ASAP
2007-03-04 07:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gansta G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a serious problem.This drug alters the mind so that they will do almost anything to get the drug.My advice is tough love. NO NO NO money, no rides,no use of any illegal substance in the residence where you live.The WORD says to lock them out.
2007-03-04 07:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by (A) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋