I am in love with my best friend we gave been friends since grade 5 and I love her so much but she thinks I'm ugly and I don't think I can live without her love and I am thinking about suicide
2007-03-04 06:52:05 · 22 answers · asked by ? 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Suicide isnt the answer. You can find love. There are so many ppl in the world. Dont give up on yourself. Get some help. I did, and it was well worth it. Ive been there.*
2007-03-04 06:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by Check this out! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ure really thinking about Suicide, you wou;dn't be telling the world. Plus, u need to stop feeling sorry fopr yourself. I've been in that situation where you think you're in love with your best friend.. sometimes its the reral deal, and sometimes you mistake comfort and friendship for a different kind of love. Its easier to love someone like that you already love as a friend. But if she reciprocates and is really your friend, however she thinks you look shouldn't matter, else, I wouldn't call her ur friend at all!
2007-03-04 21:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by sushibabes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breath deeply, and calm down. you're debating a permanent solution to a temporary problem. dating a friend is a mistake, you wind up without a friend and alone 99% of the time. i'm sure she doesn't find you ugly she just knows it's a mistake. if you can't stop thinking about this you need to take a break from being around her and get some perspective. i urge you to call a help-line and discuss this with a professional, or a school counselor, your spiritual advisor. do not allow this to become desperate, get some help, and work it out. good luck!
2007-03-04 14:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u she go up to you and tell u that u r ugly??? Because if she is calling u ugly to your face or even behind your back she isn't worth having as a friend, let alone a girlfriend. There are plenty other girls who are out there and one of them probably likes you. Someday you will find that girl so for now enjoy life with the guys. And don't kill yourself because she is rude and mean. Just forget about her.
2007-03-04 14:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never an answer just think about all the the people that care about you. When two people do not feel the same way for each other it is not meant to be. I am sure that if it is not meant to be with you and her that just means that there is someone else out there for you. Be strong and try and get yourself out there talking to other girls and probably might find someone else that you become attracted too.
2007-03-04 14:56:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself. You have to love her as a friend. It not meant to be otherwise. God will bless you with your soul mate. If you want to stay friend with her, talk to her about calling or thinking you are ugly. Tell her it hurts your feelings. Take one day at a time. You will get over her and a new girl will catch your eye.
2007-03-04 15:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude why go to extremes? If you guys have been best friends sense 5Th grade, Dont you think that will destroy her? Is that what you want?
Do what the rest of us do, Go get some burritos and a quart of chocolate, and log on Polls and Surveys and laugh at us.
2007-03-04 14:57:18 · answer #7 · answered by Charisma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is never a good option. Plus, you cant base your life on another person - that would mean youre living for them. If youre serious, get some help. There's nothing wrong with seeing a therapist!
2007-03-04 14:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is your best friend, so i mean you can be in love with her and all but you also dont want to ruin ur friendship that you already have...if she thinks you are ugly...well you cant change her opinion but just appreciate the friendship you have....there are plenty of other people out there where you will find the person that is for you
2007-03-05 15:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by crazi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you rather be friends with her or not have her around at all? If you pressure her she will run away and if you threaten suicide she will probably think you've gone psycho.
2007-03-04 14:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by KT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋