Hello, This guy told me at xmas he was selling the house and leaving his wife, as no love is left between them. I had already told my drunk of a husband that I was leaving him, before I met this guy. I have to see the guy once a week for my course work. We got close he asked me to set up I. M. I told him I fancied him rotten and he told me the same .I told my friend about this, she then told him she knew about our messages, he then sent a message telling me our friendship was good while it lasted and he would not be I.M. anymore because his job would be in danger. I am heart broken. Was he telling me lies about leaving his wife and all the other things he told me about her,the personel things he said to me about how he felt about me. He has to speak to me for my work, my friend say's she can still see the attraction between us.Did he just want a bit of fun on I.M. or what do you think.
2007-03-04 06:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's definitely full of SH*T! Some unscrupulous people will say anything on IM. I don't think he ever intended to leave his wife or sell his house. I'm sorry, but he was just having a bit of fun... and what he did was unethical. You are lucky to be rid of him.
2007-03-04 06:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are dogs. Never believe a man who says that they are leaving their wife. Such a line. Fact 86% do not leave!! So beware of these men who lead women on time after time to get what they want and return to their wives!
2007-03-04 06:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rhonda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is holding him back. Could be his wife, work or something of the sort. Ask him what happened. Close one door before you open another.
2007-03-04 06:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, just maybe, you embarrassed him by telling your friend about your I.M. so he bowed out gracefully before you told your friend anything else.
2007-03-04 10:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by badassbiker1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was telling you a sob story just to get you interested in him. And you fell for it. He is probably very happily married and just likes to string women along. Your too good for him find someone else.
2007-03-04 06:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he wanted to play.
You cannot believe someone who says they will leave their spouse until they actuall move out. And even then, things could turn around for them.
2007-03-04 06:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHHA. that's gross, yet i'm very genuinely amused, & this does it for me!! i'm going to be in this all day now !! haha edit- hahah!! i placed the leg backwards over its head and it did a backflip and then curled up right into a ball. ahahhaha
2016-09-30 04:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Full of BULL darling - he told you what you wanted to hear so that he could get in your kecks!!!!
Nothing will come of it and deep down - you know that or you wouldn't be here
2007-03-04 06:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just said those things to make himself seem more "available" for you. Forget him, he's a loser!
2007-03-04 06:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by dannykel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely it was just for fun.
2007-03-04 06:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋