Yesterday my friend was at my house and told me that I was so anorexic (I'm pretty average, 5'1" and I weigh 90 something. Hey I know girls around my age/height that weigh ALOT less than me. I'm definetely not anorexic) and she was bragging that she was average (she's 4'12" and weighs 190 pounds, which is kinda overweight for her) and that Im anorexic just because I was smaller than her.
She said that I should compliment her on her size and that people hate anorexic girls, etc. At first I didnt do anything because I know its hard for her and that shes probably jealous, but then she started to get really mean so I said "Just because you're jealous of me, you dont have to be mean to me!!!". I know its mean, but she deserved to hear it. If im jealous of a girl, I try to be nice to her.
She then said that no one would be jealous of me and told me that nobody liked me. So I told her that she can get her fat *** out of my house and I pushed her out the door. Was that wrong for me?
2007-03-04 06:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I know it was mean, but nobody should try to make someone feel bad just because they're jealous of them.
2007-03-04 06:27:29 · update #1
NO YOU WEREN'T WRONG! If I were you, I would have beaten the crap out of that stupid cow, urgh. How dare she? I'm really anorexic too, and believe me girls DIE to be this slim. Your question is "was it wrong to end our friendship", are you out of your mind girl? That isn't being friends with someone! A friend loves you for what you are, they don't try to change you. Stop feeling guilty. And if she messes with you again, you know what, just tell her to kiss your a**. I'm sorry but I'm just so angry right now, cos that's exactly how I had been treated for being slim. Now I'm really rude to people that try to tell me what to be, I just blow up in their face and tell them to suck my sock, nobody messes with me anymore. I never used to answer back cos I used to be scared they'd trash me up cos I was really weak and stuff. Now I'm strong but yet REALLY slim, physical looks can be deceiving :-) ... And who said people don't like anorexic girls? Come on! Girls keep dieting all their lives but they never succeed. We're lucky!! :D
2007-03-04 06:35:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let act like adults I'm a plus size girl and I'm damn proud of It but,I would definitely not pick on you for being lite.However if you were true Friends that would of just been a minor stepping stone in your friendship.However the link below states if you have a very small frame you should be about 104-115.hope you guys get over comments like that.look at it this way if everythings else fails tou would be a geat MODEL
FYI she should weigh about the same as you.
2007-03-04 06:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Y ask ME! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all when your friends you should be able to tell your friend how you really feel without being hurtful and mean but what she done was very disrespectful as a friend and rude. But I'm sure what you done was out of anger from taking all the mess that you have from her. Sometimes it's best to take a deep breathe before we say things that are just as hurtful as what we took but she had to know that it was coming back around to her because of the way that she treated you. But it's not good to feed into the same type of mess that rude people dish out but we're all human and sometimes anger and hurt gets the best of us all.
2007-03-04 06:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, but not the right way.It's not that fat girls are bullies (like that stupid answer the first person gave you). It's just that maybe she was going through a very rough time, who knows what's going on in her personal life. Though in this case...she does seem like she's jealous of you, but I wouldn't kick somebody out of my house and calling them fat a**. You might want to talk to her and try to make her understand what she was doing wrong to you. I hope I helped, good luck on your problem!
2007-03-04 06:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by YYYpunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you will meet new acquaintances! i've got ended many friendships in the previous and its no longer that stressful.in case you get new acquaintances stated guy or woman will probobaly be jealous and decide for to be your pal. each and everything will finally end up great :D
2016-09-30 04:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was wrong. She sounded like she was jealous. And her calling you anorexic and saying nobody likes girls who are as skinny as you was pretty messed up. If she's a real friend she'll call you and apologize about it.
2007-03-04 06:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She was probably having a bad day but hey If I gotta say I'd be pissed at her and would have done hte same thing you did. If she apologizes then work it out but you should also apologize for calling her a fat a** especially cause she seems a lil sensitive about her weight.
2007-03-04 06:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by wynsda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it was wrong and you need to apologize.
She is just learning new things and she is trying to put them to words and put them to use. Just as you are doing now.
bring her an"I'm sorry card and tell her straight out you are a crappy friend and you are going to do better from now on. And you two stop comparing apples to oranges.
there really is no point to all of this....right? now get your self to hallmark.
2007-03-04 06:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overweight people tend to be bullies.
You did the right thing - you don't need friends that are jealous of you.
2007-03-04 06:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did the right thing, drop all the haters in your life.
2007-03-04 06:32:08 · answer #10 · answered by www.japanvideogames.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋