my girl and I had a fight and she call a cop on me, the guy trys to talk to my girl, what should I do about this, my girl just told me about it, should i tell his boss about it?
2007-03-04 06:12:17 · 14 answers · asked by us_marine4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they charged you with illegal use of the english language, you oughta let it go....you haven't a leg to stand on. If it was for smacking her around, then you shouldn't worry about it either, cuz if she was hot enough, i'd hit on her too(thinkin she'd surely leave your sorry butt for slapping her).
I would say, sounds like if you stir up any trouble, they're gonna keep a tight leash on you and they, my friend, have the upper hand. Good luck!
2007-03-04 06:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by smartazz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The cop probably is better for your girlfriend than you . If a cop was needed to come and break up a fight between you and a girl the girl needs to leave you and get with the cop so that youll never bother her again,since you can only fight girls and not men youll be to big of a coward to do anything about it
2007-03-04 14:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by maxiumdamage 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No...Maybe u should stop getting arrested.Or have your gf stop calling the cops on u. Then maybe they can't talk to your gf.It's not against the law to talk to someone. Plus he won't be the last one that tries to talk to her either. Deal with it in a mature way.Either trust her or dump her.Good luck I just noticed your a marine.My father was a marine. You were taught to take control of your emotions. Maybe u need to really take a good look at this relationship your in.
2007-03-04 14:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interviewing her is fine. Do you mean he made inappropriate remarks? Lewd comments? Was flirting with her?
You leave this unclear. But if he did any of these things, you should report him to any civilian review board for the police, and the chief of police. This is unacceptable.
Now, another issue is, will they listen to the complaints of a person whom they just arrested? Maybe, maybe not. If it's bad enough, hire a lawyer and make them do something about it.
2007-03-04 14:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by martino 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
legal issue, was he inappropriate with her? He is a man they will try to talk to women him being a cop does not change that, and since you might have been whooping up on her he might have thought he had a good chance with her.. . I say get over it
2007-03-04 14:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by micheleh29 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do. It is legal..If they have a reason to believe that she knows something. You tell his boss, they will laugh in your face.
2007-03-04 14:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by St♥rmy Skye 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she called the cop on you for domestic violence, he had to question her. You have no legal rights on this one.
2007-03-04 14:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Holly R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm
it depends on wat u guys fought about, if u stiked her if u hurt her in any way.
if u did den u should go bak to ur girl and say u r sorry and that u was juss angry and was livin in the moment not thinking of wat u did ( or didnt do)
neways he's a cop and if soem1 calls they usally talk to the person who called them. if he did sumtin else den she only noes.
ne ways cops r there to protect as and keep us face.
maybe u shuld try not gettin arrested as much . or try not to get her to call the cops by not buggin her
try to show her ur volnurable ( i noe i spelled it rong :P) then ask her how she feelign and to speak her mind tell her wat tho cop told u and wat u told him ask her to do the same . then go on from wat info she gave u. in the future ttry talk thingfs out b4 it gets to the po-pos. a pologize again then have a romanitc evenin planned out.
i dont noe wat u could do as far as legal issues cuz shes a grown women and only she can decide if she wants to talk to da cop or not. if he did sumtin to minupulate her den u can try to show her dat then in the end it is up 2 her to decide wat happend .
kk
take care.
2007-03-04 14:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Leila A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what was he talking to her about(what you did to her, or did he ask her out)? either way, why should it concern you, if the cops were called that means you did something wrong or she was afraid that you might.
2007-03-04 14:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on what she means talks , if he is putting the moves on her yes if not and he is telling her to leave you if you cant get along , theres nothing you can do about it but you shouldent tell the boss she should its her that it was done to not you
2007-03-04 14:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by family fan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋