What does this dream mean?

Question

I was on vacation and my ex happen to be there also. He hugged me and apologized for what he did to me and we made ammends. WE spent the rest of the vacation together.
In reality and broke up with me and hurt me very badly. There are things we said and he did that can never be taken back so to speak, and I have a lot of resentment towards him. If it were up to me, we would be friends, but I forgfave him the first time for what he did and he walked all over that too.

Answer 1

Hey Maria! The Vacation represents your desire in escaping in your heart, mind, and body, to a place of peace, joy, refreshing, restoration, renewal, a fulfilled place of contentment and reassurance and of course, there's a how to go about re-establishing trust issue, as well,1st that you can trust yourself to make right, good, stable,and beneficial decisions for yourself. In having discernment before you involve yourself so deeply in relationships.An 2nd. of how to trust your X, after his repeated addictive, transgressions. A trust toward issues in respect to any other man in the future, this dream is your desire and inward reality. A place far away from where you presently are located in your outward situation, reality, which is layered with mistrust, resentment, rejection, abuse, unforgivness, and bitterness.....Quite simply, you desire it fixed, repaired, and hopefully, a re-uniting, if he, your x, would meet your there, in that place! The place of mending, the place of resolving this emotional heart matter, this place where you both can communicate, the place where both of you see and understand each others heart , the transgressions on both sides,and the damage that resulted. You desire this vacation place, with your X, appearing on his own,in that place of understanding and restoration and renewal. Without any coercion ! And that you both can REMAIN in that, "Vacation Place," of new exploration, a kinder, gentler, loving, exploration, an honest, true, upright, and brighter place, until you are established, for the rest of your journey. Communicatively, emotionally, mentally, and hopefully physically as well!...This I believe is what your dream meant, in accordance to the amount of info you gave, try to zero in on DETAILS, color, brightness or dimness, clarity, description of clothes, shoes or none, vehicles and their appearance etc, animals, everything, including the way you felt in different scenes. Thanks for the question?

Answer 2

Just because we 'dream' about another person does not mean that that person was in our dream. That person is simply, and quite often, another aspect of ourselves represented in them.

The two sides of yourself in your dream are: the you who you were before (represented in the ex) and the you as you are now (represented by you). Basically the dream was saying that the old 'you' apologized to the 'new' you, and that you made ammends with yourself and therefore spent the rest of the vacation (time away from others) being whole.

In other words, you made your peace with yourself for the bad decision you made to date the guy, and are moving on with your life.

Answer 3

It might be that your subconscious is trying to tell you to let go of any ill feelings you have towards him. Unless you let go you will not be able to move forward. This might be especially true if you have hopes for a relationship in the here and now. You can forgive and put it behind you and not repeat it by keeping him out of your life. Only you know what is happening now to make you subconsciously want to let it go.

Answer 4

Dreams don't necessarily mean anything.
I still dream of old loves 20-30 years later.

Go forward with your life. Someone worthy of you is out there.

Answer 5

You had a dream of your actual desire.Part of you still seeks him and that is also why you still hurt in reality.

Answer 6

it means u are still in love with ur ex