My moms is really paranoid and wont take me but i have no reason she shouldnt trust me. I just wanna hang out with him.
2007-03-04 05:56:17 · 6 answers · asked by Yummy H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sneaking out will just make it worse.Plus you'll get caught sooner or later.Then she'll beable to say I told u so.I hated when my mom said that.Just talk to your mom and ask if maybe he can come over to your house.This way you'll beable to see him.Good luck
2007-03-04 06:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yummy...
it probably isn't you that your mom dosen't trust. Don't take it personaly! You may just want to hang out but he may want more.
Guys can be very convincing in the heat of the moment. Also, most females are raped by someone they know. Date rape is still rape and it is a very serious problem today.
There are so many things going on; AIDS, other sexually transmitted deseases, early pregnancey, lack of knowledge about birth control, lack of knowledge of your own body and health, date rape, kidnapping ( there is a sex slave market), people that are all to ready to put you on the market for sex through the internet and other means. (Note the guy who put that single thing up on your answer board! Do ya think that's for young people? NO!)
I know many women who have been raped. A friend of mine when she was a teenager got attached to a boyfriend that decided he was going to be a pimp and sell her to other guys for sex. She tryed to get away from him after she realized her parents were right about him. He broke into their house and tryed to kidnap her! She finally got rid of him but it was a team effort with her family. She was smart, she didn't hide it from them, and they were able to help her. They were good people and didn't judge their daughter.
Any time you feel you have to hide something from your folks it is likely a bad idea. Even from a safety point of view. If something did happen they won't know where to check first! Besides, is it fair to scare the heck out of your mother even if things are OK?
I understand where she is coming from. If she is a little over protective or likes to discriminate between your friends and boyfriends based on things like colour and religion maybe you have a real beef. But if it is just out of concern for your safety
give the woman a break and listen to her. She isn't being silly.
Better safe than sorry! Please be careful!
2007-03-04 14:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kim! ....is that you?!!! Dammit girl, I told you to stay away from that boy!! I'm telling your father now get off that computer and go clean your room like a asked you! - mom
2007-03-04 14:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.
Mom is wise.
Before you know it, temptation will make you want to... do the wrong thing before your ready.
2007-03-04 14:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww i get the same thing!!!! i usually leave when everybody's sleeping like a mouse...
2007-03-04 13:59:16 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it
2007-03-04 14:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋