I am stuck to my very best friend. It's like we-can't-live-without-each-other.
Though, we live far from each other now,(as we are not schooling anymore, used to be in a boarding sc together) but we managed to get it well by hanging out sometimes and chat everyday...till recently, she stop her chat's credit to buy a book (which she never was a reader before but she told me she got hooked up on it because i taught her). I was but now i am a gamer.
Likely, she said she also can't hang out with me for a few months later on.
She once told me she'll appreciate nothing but to have times spent with me. I swore to myself i'll never neglect her for anything that'll show up in my life but hereafter, she's onto something else than me myself??
Am i just being over doubt on her or she's likely stayng away from me??
I'll be studying abroad -overseas- few months from now on...and i'll not leave her forgetting me...what should i do??
i've made her times to tell me that she'll never forget me...
2007-03-04 05:21:10 · 5 answers · asked by middle of mind 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Could it possible that she did that to avoid me, for i am going to leave her in such a while???
2007-03-04 05:44:33 · update #1
Well having a long distance relationship with anyone is hard.. maybe she or yourself just doesn't have anything to talk about anymore and you guys aren't as close as you were before. If i were you i would just send her a letter or email and give her your address for where ever you are studying abroad. i bet she still loves and cares for you deeply its just she doesn't have time to use the computer or whatever.
Take care
2007-03-04 05:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds more like an obsession than a friendship. If you two are two friends you will not lose her friendship just because you are both older and going different ways in life.
Relax send emails (normal amounts) call once in awhile. You don't have to talk to her everyday, you don't have to meet up for lunch or time out all the time cherish what the friendship has turned into not what it was, and most of all lose the obsession, not healthy.
2007-03-04 05:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Marla D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has found new interest in her life. This does not mean she has forgotten you, just that she is concentrating own the new. You also need to find new interest for your life. You are going away for school, maybe your friend can not afford the long distance call or email chats.You can not force some one to be a friend either they are or their not. Keep in touch by regular mail, while you are away. Ask her what is new in her life.Then tell her about your new environment.
2007-03-04 05:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your friend is growing up and getting a life for herself. Perhaps you should too.
2007-03-04 05:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Fellina 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget it.......long distant friendship die no matter what you do.
2007-03-04 05:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by tdcampbell 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋