Woman are complicated, I am 27 ready to find a woman that would make me a good wife, but most woman want to just have fun be ur gf... I got a many gf type woman and currently I met someone who I think I can be with for very long time but yet not get bored or feel I had enough of her
so how can I tell if she wants to settle down anytime soon.. does she sees her self as a gf or a potential future wife
2007-03-04 05:08:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
A man as wise as an elephant will mate for life. A lion mates for convenience and stability. Marriage is stable in the midst of instability. No matter the drought or famine the elephant has his mate and they endure together. The lion will eats its young to survive. So to you grasshopper are you an elephant or a lion? Do you want a mate for life that will improve you, honor you, and be with you regardless of the situation that the two of you are in? Or shall you be a lion that wants to rule, and will put his needs above the pride? Only when you decide what you are will you be able to decide what mate to choose.
2007-03-07 17:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shogun Vega 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is the question of the ages. I don't think you have to worry about women settling down. You are really asking yourself if you are ready to settle down. The best way to find out if the woman is the one you want to settle down with is continue to see her. From time to time, talk about togetherness, life long commitment, kids, and family. Then listen to her response. Find out if she wants kids, find out if you want kids. If it is what you want then you can decide. Sorry no hard set rules to find out if your will be happy together if you ever make that decision to settle down. Like with us all it is a crap shot. Most women are one way before marriage and kids and completely different after it. There are alot of reasons why but mostly it is we just grow older. The ones that stay together are the ones that can grow older together and change with life's changes. Good Luck
2007-03-04 05:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by NIck N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a potential wife is one who you ultimately click with, she does things that totally surprises you, you two have many many many things in common and are on the same track when it comes to values morals and goals etc.......She has to do things out of the blue without you even seeing it coming........
The other day (take me for example.....may not be the best example, still an example though)......this particular lady who I know has a crush on me, well, we had to demonstrate some things together (to the examiner) and I had this bad cold so you know I was coughing and coughing and coughing......Anyway, NORMALLY (atleast I dont think) a "girlfriend" would keep going out of her way putting her own hand over her boyfriends mouth or whenever he coughs and ask if hes ok......Now on the other hand if shes the wife type then THAT would really symbolize a true wifey (and it caught me by surprise that she would even do that) but anyway, think about it.....Anyone else, they would turn away, turn up their nose and whatever else....but she didnt!!!! so uh, with all that said, ...
good luck
2007-03-04 05:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to be with you all the time she must want to be with you. if she constantly ditches you and has multiple guys calling. you will have to find another. well it takes time and you probly have to ask what she wants. I know i had a few keepers but i wasn't ready which sometimes i regret.
2007-03-04 08:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live with her. Then you should know. Make it a few years though so that she will drop her guard. Who knows? Maybe you will find out if you really are ready too.
2007-03-04 05:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell, feel her out without freaeking her out. Those types are hard to come by, most girls these days are all whores.
2007-03-04 05:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mike C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you tell? Continue dating her. .Simple as that. After a while.. state your feelings to her.. if she responds favorably, then she could be the one. Takes time.
2007-03-04 05:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that you want to spend the rest of your life with her or him then that's the person.
2007-03-04 07:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one who makes u wait has to wear protection,
If she the number one hot thing,
$Bill, no change
Super star, no fame
all play and no games
2007-03-04 05:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by Elroy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you have in common with her.
2007-03-04 06:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by jracer524 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋