I want to spend every moment Im not busy with her, however she doesn't seem to think the same way and would apparently rather be alone with her tv. She says she loves me but doesn't want to get "tired" of me... Its not like we're married! We barely see each other to be honest with school and work.
I think I should dump her ungrateful behind? What would you do?
2007-03-04 05:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by some guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, she has a point. I mean, if something is there beside you, everyday, it wouldn't be special, right? I mean, if you wear a shoe everyday, if the same as anyother shoe. But if you let that shoe stay in the closet for 3 days, next time you wear it (i'm saying it's a really good and comfortable shoe), you will like it more. I know that you really like her, and want to be with her all the time, but you would also get tired of her soon. I think that she's smart to say that. You should keep her, but keep in touch the days she's alone (one phone call, 2 maximum). If you really love her, this would be a test of trust as well for you. I mean, even married people do stuff alone. Anyways, there's a good chance she'll miss you after a while, and she would want to stay with you more. Just let her do stuff alone for a while, talk at nights, ask about her day. Meet up every 2 or 3 days. But don't dump her.
2007-03-04 05:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by All-Time-Knower 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO, don't! Im a girl with a personality exactly like that! Its just that I like to spend time alone some times, I dont like a guy to bug me all the time, im sure she does like you, but I do want a time where I can just watch tv or go on YA in my pajamas by myself and have the much needed me-time. dont dump her she'll be so sad.
2007-03-04 13:23:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dating Game Rule 102 when she wants time away she's already tired of you. Sometimes dream match-ups come true, sometimes they don't in the latter case it just means you have to find your dream come true elsewhere. Just leave bitterness aside because mistakes from the past are lessons learned not baggage to carry with you the rest of your life to weigh down your next relationship with a good woman who wants to give you her unconditional love and affection.
2007-03-04 13:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ive used that excuse before.
basically means = i need you in my life for now, because i dont really have anyone else [of the opp sex] i can spend time with... i really cant see this lasting... but ill try tough it out... and lastly....you are annoying...hence she cant see you too often... you're too draining...
harsh... but believe me... TRUE
2007-03-08 11:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by ilovecokeacole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man its just an excuse, You better dump her
2007-03-04 13:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by minnesotabluerags 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
people are different. Some are extroverts, some are introverts and need some time alone.
2007-03-04 13:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by nev 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She already has dumped you, move on.
2007-03-04 13:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by zaphodsclone 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should do what your heart tells you.
2007-03-04 22:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by its_whatever11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is tired of you.. kick her to the curb
2007-03-04 13:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋