be friends because you feel sorry for things not working out? Is it or is it not a better route to take than just hating eachother?
2007-03-04 04:53:55 · 14 answers · asked by Forgotten Man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can't be friends if you don't have respect and honesty.
2007-03-04 12:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being friends isn't a good idea. You shouldn't have to continually tell someone that you don't want to talk to them. You shouldn't be freinds with them because you feel sorry about the way things turned out. It sounds like they still want you and if you befriend them they will keep at it till you do hate each other.
2007-03-04 04:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Amangela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have told them u don't want to talk to them and they keep trying.Then u need to cut all ties.The reason is they think u don't mean what u are saying.No matter how many times u say it.They still think they have a chance of getting back together. Good luck
2007-03-04 04:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times, till you realize your sympathized will bring to an opening of a new friendship.
Well, guess what? I used to be flamed to hate this girl but i ended up sticking my life unto her. (and now i-could-not-live-without her).I did surprised others, lots of others.
Still, we fight each other 24/7...
I'm still her biggest fan.
It is a better route, you should hit it.
2007-03-04 05:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by middle of mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be open and honest and tell them why you are ending the friendship. Don't waste the energy hating them, but it is ok to dissolve a relationship that is harmful to you.
You can't choose your family, BUT you can choose your friends!
2007-03-04 04:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a medium ground somewhere.
If you're sure you don't want them in your life at ALL anymore, only you can make that happen...
Don't look for reasons or excuses to hate anybody.
2007-03-04 04:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relation went sour, there is no reason to put forth any effort. You wanna move on...just do it. There is no reason to hate someone, but if it's forced it's not real and you should just move on.
2007-03-04 04:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by poodlemama1965 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only have to say it once. If ur through then u know ur through. prolonging it is only gonna make it more painful for them to get over. remember outta sight outta mind
2007-03-04 04:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by brina277 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to b friends with anyone and if u don't wanna talk to them, go on telling it until they stop or just ignore them
2007-03-04 04:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by kwlcmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have found being direct with tact is always the best route
2007-03-04 04:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by bb m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god im having the same problem ...i broke up with my boyfriend more than 20 times and he wont leave me alone...hes actually called my cell back to back 78 times....not only is he mental but he wont leave me alone
2007-03-04 04:59:57 · answer #11 · answered by krissy t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋