what should i do she wants help in telling her parents but i dont know how to help her HELP
2007-03-04 04:08:57 · 26 answers · asked by xoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girl should be straight up. The parents will hopefully be supportive and help her. If the guy is 18 or older this is disaster regardless.
2007-03-04 04:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off how old is the guy that she had intercourse with? is he her age or older? did she use protection? nowdays so many young teens are ingaging in sexual activities, the only person that can tell her parents is her, the only thing you can do is support her by comforting her letting her know that your there for her, and that if she used protection she should pretty much be okay. but i would recommend that she tell her parents, its something that she and her parents have to deal with. and if she is pregnant ABORTION IS NOT THE ANSWER! SHE KNEW WHAT SHE WAS DOING WHEN SHE LAID DOWN SO THERE FORE TAKE CARE OF THE RESPONSIBILITY! USING ABORTION JSUT TO GET RID OF A KID YOU DONT WANT TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY ON, MAKES HER LOOK, SELFISH AND TACKY. and if she gets pregnant she will not look like a scum or become a scum because of it, especially if she has parents who are loving and caring of her they may get mad for what shes done but, parents forgive......well some anyway.
2007-03-04 12:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by future journalist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. If she wants to tell her parents then she I am sure is ok with what she has done. What you need to do is tell her that she needs to be strong and explain to her parents that she really has feeling for the guy that shes has had sex with. She needs to explain that her age is young but the feeling she has for him is so strong that she felt it was the right time. If she did it by mistake and regrets it then she needs to tell her parents just that. But whatever the case maybe she needs to almost have a plane of what she wants to say.
2007-03-04 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by sweet and simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be a good idea to tell her parents unless she thinks she is pregnant. You should try to convince her to stop having sex so young, or if she insists make sure she knows all of the risks involved. Good luck.
2007-03-04 12:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I always tell this to people in situations like this...I will definitely pray for you! Now I know ppl don't like to be nagged...but why did she do that at such a young age? Could she not have waited? But anyway, tell her to sit her parents down with her boyfriend and tell them...first say, "Now, before I tell you this...you cannot get mad...you have to promise..." of course it depends on who your parents are and how they will take...but she needs to tell them...especially if she ends up getting pregnant! God Bless sweety!
2007-03-04 12:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by blueyedtrumpet18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a serious matter im 15 too if she really is going to tell her parents i agree to be with her but dont say anything or maybe its better if your not there but she needs to learn from her mistake and take the consequences they might kick her out or somethng but other girls dont usually tell their parents if it was me i wouldnt tell my mom i would probably feel guitly but i wouldnt say anything i think that she should tell her parents so that they can take her to a doctori agree with swaggs the guy above of me
2007-03-04 12:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First its none of your business honestly. It is between her and her parents. You shouldnt even be there when it happens, you may be like sisters but reality your not part of their family. If shes afraid of them beating her or putting her out keep her mouth closed. She should talk to her doctor. Or if she has older siblings confide inthem, maybe even a cool uncle or aunt she can talk to and be there with her when she tells her parents.
2007-03-04 12:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is early, but they are doing it younger and younger now. She should talk to her parents if they are understanding. If not, she needs to get into a free clinic and get some protection and some birth control.
2007-03-04 12:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing she is pregnant right if not then no one is ever to know right
if she is pregnant then you just need to tell her to own up and openly say to her pairents mum im pregnant there is no other way the truth will show either way it is better to confess than be found out
mabe then consider an abortion please dont keep the kid thats the worst thing imaginable you can always get pregnant again later if you keep the kid you will be seen as scum if you get rid no one apart from family is ever to know
2007-03-04 12:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by eddy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to have a frank and honest discussion about this with her parents.
"Mom (or) Dad, I've been seeing this guy lately and we're more than friends now..."
From here her parents should take her to her gyno to get her started on some sort of birth contol.
2007-03-04 12:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋