and I if it was not for this new found situation, things would be a whole lot worse!!! The first person to breach this gap was my wife. Old boyfriend. After it was me. When we talked about it and discussed this as two adults, it added to our lives. That was 18 months ago and it has done a world of good for the two of us!!
2007-03-04 04:05:25 · 14 answers · asked by omejoker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry, but the question is, Has this worked for other couples? In addition, Don't you think this was cheaper than divorce?
2007-03-04 04:14:34 · update #1
works well for us we agree that the most important thing for both of us is that i get all the sex i need . any time my husband needs sex he is to ask me first . if i cant satisfy him then he can get some on the side but he has not needed to do that in 10 years and most of the time he is happy for the help that my lovers give him . men just cant keep up how many men do you think have been gangbanged my husband has been in one but he was part of the gang i have been in 6 and i was the one who took on the gang
2007-03-04 04:18:49 · answer #1 · answered by bjrj812 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you've discovered something that works for you just supports the fact that the whole concept of 'marriage' is an artificial construct, and one size truly does not fit all. If anything, I'm sure this newfound realization has only enhanced the intimacy of your marriage since now you feel like you can both be more truthful to each other in levels you've never realized before. Congratulations! This happens only to very few enlightened couples.
And of course this is nothing new, in fact the whole concept of 'open marriage' has many names. I prefer 'polyamoury,' myself (the ability to love more than one person at a time, in a nutshell). Your 'discovery' has been validated! Yes, we exist! Do a google search and you'll find discussion groups, online and locally, where you can share these newfound relevations and deepen your relationship(s) even further.
If only more couples were as intimately honest as you!
2007-03-05 14:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by DavID 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some it does. Hope it works in the long run for the two of you.
2007-03-04 04:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your question? I hope you're wearing protection as well as your wife. Another question is, why bother being married then? You should just stay single so you can sleep with everyone.
2007-03-04 04:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a question. Fine if it worked for you, but it doesn't for most so why are you telling people it's such a great thing. You're irresposible. Watch out for STDs.
2007-03-04 04:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is great if it works for you,but for how long?You really shouldn't have chldren though,people will talk and children will get hurt by that.
2007-03-04 04:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget to use condoms and get a physical every six months.
2007-03-04 04:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this is really cool and your I would love to suggest this to my husband but I don't think it would go over so well.
2007-03-04 04:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worked for us.. Actully improved our sex life in the bedroom when were together.
2007-03-04 04:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What was th point of marriage? When I said my vows, it didn't include other people.
2007-03-04 04:23:59 · answer #10 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋