Ok I am confused this white girl at my school always acted angry if I even mistakenly glanced her way.Then I made an effort not to even look at her cause I thought it bothered her.Besides I dont want to look at her or anything else.Anyway when I stopped looking at her she seemed to become angry I mean a few times I would pass by her on my way to class and she'd hussle pass me bumping me in the shoulder and I would be so confused.So after a month or so of totally ignoring her existence this other white girl that i know now is the girls sister gives me a note and points to the girl I thought hated me.Then I read the note expecting it to be curse words lol.and she was asking did i want to go out sometime.Well to be honest I am not in the least bit attracted to white women.I dont hate them I just am not attracted,I like dark skin thats just my preference.So after I told her I wasnt interested she called me a racist.Did she think just because I'm a black guy I'd want her?
2007-03-04 04:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i'm asian and white girls think every guy has to like them cause they are white and the media acts like they are top of the litter when really they are most of them anyway are fugly and smell like cow/dog/fish draws who'd ever want to date such a thing stick with hispanic girls they are best looking plus white girls look old around age 30 when every other race is just starting to look grown ewww yeah ur smart
2007-03-04 05:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky the kid 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that's just what she thought. She sounds like an angry girl with a strange attitude that you're better off without. Not being attracted to light-skinned women doesn't make you any more racist than someone who likes redheads better than blondes or whatever. I'm a white female. I have no attraction whatsoever to Asian men, for instance, (except Ken Watanabe, pant pant) but that doesn't mean I look down on Asian people.
What attracts one person to someone else is a mystery having nothing to do with race. She'll be happier and farther on the way to growing up when she realizes this.
2007-03-04 04:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the race of their Dad. From what I've seen, both of those examples would be more likely to date a White guy if their fathers were White. However, Eurasian girls generally date White guys unless they're familiar with their Asian culture, and Half Black girls generally date Black guys unless they have a strong preference for another race.
2016-03-28 23:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, it's totally just a preference. And have you ever thought that maybe you just haven't seen any white chicks you thought were hot? And if not, it's just a visual characteristic. You're not attracted to white girls, calling that racist would be like saying a guy who has a preference for redheads is a Ginger Supremacist. Or a self-hating brunette.
2007-03-04 04:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kwisatz Haderach 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not a racist, but I think you could have handled it in a different manner.
Young society watch shows like MTV and think that's the way the world is.
Many men have told me after they work up the nerves to approach me, that they thought I might not like them due to their skin color.
Point: You hurt her feelings and she struck back in anger... No one likes to be rejected no manner what skin tone they may have..
2007-03-04 04:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You just said it. It's just not your preference and your just being true about yourself. Im pretty sure that the girl likes you a lot and since she thinks you dont like her and in a way snobs her BEAUTY...so there she goes- getting even by saying those words. Dont you worry- you are FINE!!Absolutely not a RACIST!
2007-03-04 04:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey Mc. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't racist. Nothing says that to not be racist you have to be attracted to a person of another race. It just sounds like she wanted attention from you and when you didn't give it to her she got angry. Don't let it bother you!
2007-03-04 04:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you're not racist, there's nothing wrong with you. It's a matter of what you truly feel. You can't pretend to love someone just to be politically correct. (This is a completely unbiased opinion coming from someone who belongs to neither of the ethnic groups mentioned by you)
2007-03-04 04:10:56 · answer #8 · answered by Martinique Samuelson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not at all a racist. Physical attraction is whatever it is. If you don't find a certain race attractive, you don't find them attractive. Everybody is in the same boat there, everyone is not attracted to everyone.
2007-03-04 04:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to like whoever you want. You can't help who you are attracted to. If you aren't attrated to this girl, then don't go out with her. It's your life, your choice. She'll get over it. If she calls you a racist, just tell her straight out that you aren't attracted to her. That's it.
2007-03-04 04:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by patchouligirl 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋