What would you choose? Friendship over love? or love over the risk of losing your friendship? and why?
2007-03-04 03:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by fed up 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Love defo...besides, the person you are inlove with should be your best friend too...its all rolled up into one...or atleast my marriage is!
2007-03-07 20:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friendship all the way!!! Love, no matter how much you feel for oneanother, nearly always ends in heart ache. I don't think that a friend should ever put another friend in the position where they have to choose to go out with someone (which will almost certainly end in an uncomfortable frindship/no friendship at all) or to reject them and almost certainly loose all friendship ties with them. I've been in the position- just don't go there!
2007-03-11 07:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn Helven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. If your still in High school then i would choose friendship, because friendship is the strongest bond., and you wouldnt want to lose that. But if your older and you think you are ready for a loving relationship then try it. you just need to think of your feelings and the other persons feelings. You just need to think about all of your options that you might ruin or you might make stonger. I hope i have helped and good luck
2007-03-04 11:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was a lover n a friend that dint get on n neither of them wanted u to be friends/partners with the other, i wouldnt choose either of them, i would walk away n move on, no one is worth telling someone that u cant b with/friends with another person. but if it is a friend that u feel u love n want be with them but are scared of risking the friendship u have, i would choose to go for it. life is too short for regrets!! hope all goes well! xx
2007-03-08 03:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason why the two can't go together. Love exist in friendship too, & lovers often started being friends at first.
2007-03-07 09:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by MoiMoii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one. But if i was in love, i would choose love over friendship, and i know thats hard to say...but its true.
2007-03-04 11:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is proper love then i believe the friendship bit is in with it. My hubby and i love each other very much. We have been together for 13 years this year, we still mess around and act like friends too, infact our son often says we embarrass him because we mess around, like mates do, sometimes. So if your lucky in your love you should get the friendship along with it. xxxxxxxxxxx
2007-03-09 12:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each friendship is different and each love is different. It will have to depend on the friendship and on the love.
2007-03-04 13:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Cassidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask and it bothers you then the answer is friendship. Life goes on and if you are in love you wouldn't be asking this question.
2007-03-11 16:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I split up with my boyfriend (though we were back together a week later!!!) we decided to be friends, We didn't want to lose our friendship. I would have missed him like crazy. Still do as unfortunately, it's long distance. xxx
2007-03-08 07:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by Joanne W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep the friendship and have a bit of fun but if you both feel the same way go for it, you will never know if its the right thing to do but follow your heart it could be the best thing you ever do...........
2007-03-04 16:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by fear of the dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋