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You SHOULD love your spouse more in my opinion. Love your children also and do them right. You only have so many years to actually love your children before they fly the nest. But if the children are coming between you and your spouse then something is wrong.


When all is over an the kids hit about 15 they will be gone with friends a lot...

When they hit 18-19 they will be in college then off on their own. Who does that leave you with?? Your spouse!!!

Women- Isn’t it wonderful that you want your husband to love you more than his mother. But then you decide to love your children more than him? What happens when your son has to make the same decision? You will be abandoned and tell the son to do the right thing and love his wife… She sleeps under him, not you.

Men- This is the woman that you chose to be your life long partner. How do you deny her the affection as a soul mate? Remember. Your wife sleeps under you, not your mother or your children.. The wife is your partner for as long as time will allow.

2007-03-04 03:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Renoirs_Dream 5 · 0 2

you cannot compare the love you have for a child against the love you have for your spouse. It is a completely different kind of love.

additional info I have 3 kids, and i dont think you should have to choose between your spouse and children. I would do anything to keep my children safe - they are my life, however i couldnt survive without my husband - he is my rock.

2007-03-04 03:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by littlekitty 4 · 2 0

I love them equally, but in different ways. I can say that if I had to choose between saving my child or my spouse, I would save my child. My husband would understand that and I would expect the same of him. A mother's love is much different.

2007-03-04 03:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

The love you have for your spouse and the love you have for your children are different kinds of love. Apples and oranges - can't compare.

2007-03-04 03:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by ra63 6 · 1 0

My children, without a doubt. They are my flesh and blood. I would say that the love of children and the love of a spouse are different kinds of love, but I would have to say my children hands down, every time.

2007-03-10 02:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 4 · 0 1

i ask your self in case you sense this kind b/c the guy you would love extra isn't the daddy of your toddlers, the fellow who you've outfitted your finished existence with. My husband is my entire note, alongside with my youthful ones. i become married even as i become 18 and he become 23. we've performed each little thing mutually - began from scratch with him cleansing up a farm, progression a house, progression a existence. Then got here toddlers. i respect my toddlers very a lot, and that i will not extremely say i respect one element better than the different. certain - seconding what MT suggested - husband got here first, earlier toddlers. toddlers were no longer even on our minds then. Husband will stay, be with me perpetually. toddlers will likely leave.

2016-11-27 20:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i agree with whatever, but when it comes down to the nitty-gritty, i think the parent will always choose the child over the spouse

2007-03-04 03:43:13 · answer #7 · answered by ReRe 3 · 0 0

I love my spouse, I hate children because I knew the fact of them when they grow up.
* I never wanted a child, I took all availabe measures not to have one, but I failed & I had two, I love them to a limit.
* Now they grew up & caused lot of trouble, they didn't worth my love to them.
*Only they look lovely when they are babies (ingeneral).
Love ur spouse, she deserve the lasting love not the child
MO

2007-03-04 03:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

My children, becaus ethey are the innocent beings that I chose to bring into this world. It is my job to love and protect them, while my husband is a grown man who should be capable to do it on his own.

2007-03-08 06:42:17 · answer #9 · answered by laceywat1 3 · 0 1

Its a different type of love.You love both but I think most people love their children better because they have their own blood

2007-03-04 03:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by klint mane 2 · 1 1

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