My family is v busy. No one have time for me. They all go to a club so they all have something in common to talk n that is club.
N often I am left alone. I dont have many friends. N the few friends I have r very meanie. I have only 1 good friend who talks to me according to her convinence. And I feel like she is doing a favour on me which I dont want.
She wants to be my friend at the same time she shows me that she is v busy but still she is managing to talk to me. I dont want all this.
I want to be left alone and I dont want to talk to her for a few days which if I tell her she or explain her, I am sure she will take it wrong n will think like.. I dont want to be her friend anymore where I want to be her friend but I want to accept that I am alone in life which I cant do if I keep on talking to her.
How should I tell her without hurting her that I want to be alone for a few says n dont want to talk to her.
2007-03-04 03:34:11 · 10 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My question to you is why do you want to be alone? I know you feel alone but why would you want to be that way. What you should do is tell your friend that you feel as though she is talking to you out of charity. Tell her how you feel and hope for the best. Hope that she will understand where you are coming from and that she will not take it offensively.
Secondly, i will say this as nice as i possibly can. GET A LIFE!!!!!
You really need to get out of the house and go SOMEWHERE!
Maybe you don't want to go to the club with your family that's fine. Find something that you like to do and go by yourself. You never know who you will meet and you might meet a new best friend or people with the same interest as you or a BF/GF or whatever you are into. Go out and have some fun you don't want to be alone and you know it!
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-04 04:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can easialy relate..I was put in the same situation just few years ago. I had problems at home, where my mother passed away and my dad was an alcoholism, and you can imagin what alcoholism do. any ways I most of the time felt like being alone, and far away from my best friend, so I started ignoring her and giving her the mean look, stopped answering her calls . finally she stopped talking to me, and a I was left alone.But after a while I started missing her, because I wanted somebody that I could trust and share my problemes with., but it wasn't easy to get her back again, it was actually imposible, coz she was killed later. now I feel like **** and I regret what I did to her. an advise keep you relationship with your freind,you dont want to be left alone for your whole life. and you what true friend are like money, easy to spend, hard to be kept.
2007-03-04 12:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems like a good friend who is taking time out of her busy life to show you she cares so stop pushing her away, she deserves better than that and if you carry on you will be alone and yes you might want to be alone now but what about in 3 months time or even 3 years, surely you don't want to be alone forever??? Good friends are hard to come by, appreciate what you got!!!
2007-03-04 11:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by The Weird One! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend who is overbearing, and insensitive and think's he's doing me a favour by being my friend.... Actually, no... I dont have a friend like that.... I told him to get lost, maybe that what you should do, then have a little time alone, set yourself a limit to that ( or you end up never socialising again ) and then, get out into the world and find new friends.
2007-03-05 04:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by jlb.1970@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could stop returning her calls and take longer to reply to her e-mails. also write very short e-mails..
are you trying to get rid of her for good, or just for a few days?
might just have to be honest with her that you feel you are drifting a part and/or that you just want to be left alone for a while
2007-03-04 13:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lief, ware somtink sexie, go in Pub, have a few cans off 4 X and let natur taek it coarse, you fele much beter after a fuk ore Ganging Bang.
2007-03-04 13:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by petrovitch m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant have a freind and be alone in life choose which one you want!
2007-03-04 11:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just don't answer the phone.
2007-03-04 11:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say ignore her. She'll get the point.
2007-03-04 11:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no idea
2007-03-04 12:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋