Yesterday, my cousin had a party ( and she did not invite me to come along ) to go to. so while she was out having fun, i was stuck at home doing absolutely nothing being bored to death with nothing to do except be on Yahoo! answers. and don't get me wrong, i like all you people on Y!A, but come on , i had been on since 10 am. so anyways, today she has a party for a little girl who turns 6 years old. so obviously, she's going to be bored with the little 5 and 6 year olds so she invited me. but i turned down her invitation because yesterday while she was having fun, i was bored and lonely. but now when SHE'S bored, that changes doesn't it??? she invites me because she's going to have nothing to do. but you know what?? it's payback time. now it's time for her to be bored so she knows what yesterday felt like for me.
am i wrong for doing this? or should i go along with her???
THANKS IN ADVANCE :-)
2007-03-04 03:21:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
and no, i do not have any desire for going to said party as i will be equally bored.
2007-03-04 03:34:10 · update #1
It sounds as if you are unhappy that she did not invite you to her party, so it's payback time. I would guess that you are a teen. Something more mature than payback is having a talk with her and telling her how you feel about the situation. Her feelings may or may not be hurt if you choose not to go to a child's birthday party. Do you want to go to the party? Go if you want to go to the party, if not find something else to do.
2007-03-04 03:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why go if your going to get bored? I think if you had a party and didnt invite her soley because she didnt invite you, that would be petty. If you dont want to go, dont. Dont go down to her level.
Sorry for the lecture.
2007-03-04 03:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Feeling blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are fine not going - I mean why would you want to go?
But honestly I dont think she will see the connection - she will just assume you didnt want to go to some little kids party that she probably wishes she could get out of!
2007-03-04 03:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was right for you to do that, but it is what I would have done. It was the wrong thing to do because you are sinking done to our cousin's level but it is soooooo satisfying. As for changing your mind: Do you like kids? If so it would be all right for you to go. As for myself I don't like little kids so I wouldn't go. Maybe you not going will make your cousin feel a bit remorseful.
2007-03-04 03:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are being rude and petty. Take the higher road go with her. Payback might feel good at the time, but where does it end?
2007-03-04 04:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by tomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go to the party. Maybe she had a reason that you couldn't be invited to the other one. Just let it go..
2007-03-04 03:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sure you dont want to hear this, but two wrongs dont make a right. you can show her that your still nice to her no matter what and come with her
2007-03-04 03:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, think about this: she invited YOU and not sum other girl that she hung out w/ yeasterday.
this probably means sumthing
2007-03-04 03:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you, payback time..
2007-03-04 03:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋