i found my cousins on myspace, (i live in the states) and they live on the other side of the globe
When i was 5 yrs. old i visited them , and played, talked, laughed with them, that was 10 yrs. ago. I visited them just last sumer, they were shy n i was too, CUZ THEY WERE, it was awkward cuz we were BARELY talking to eachother.
now i found them on myspace, i don't feel like adding them cuz like I BARELY talked to them when i last saw them, and the thing is, i might go back to visit them next year, and when i see them again, say if i do add them on and become very 'talkative' on the internet, but once i see them , it'll be like BAM!, QUIETNESS / AWKWARDNESS! (some ppl r very much like that)
so what should i do? what would u do?
i just dont want to visit them in real life again and it'll be Very QUIET again..
ALSO WOULDN'T IT BE WEIRD IF I DO ADD THEM, CUZ I LIKE SEARCHED THEM, isn't that kinda WEIRD/'STALKERISH',wouldnt they
think i'm weird...?
2007-03-04 03:00:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do contact them! That's what my space is for!
Maybe you can get to know them this way, and if you ever meet face to face again..things won't be so awkward!
Your cousins and it's great to stay involved in eachothers lives..even if it's through e-mail
Jot them a line and if they respond , then you'll know they are interested in you too!
2007-03-04 03:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all.-it's not being a stalker* or being weird*
I've found my cousins that live across the globe also..and now talk to them on msn.or through email, just to say hi..keep in touch..I met them also when I was younger...and hope to see them again someday if I travel over there.
If you don't want to tho...that's fine also* Perhaps it will be even more weird for YOU, knowing you found them on myspace but never said Hello* If they somehow find that you have myspace and have been checking out their space...you will look weird as you didn't even say HI* they're your cousins* they live on the other side of the world.......If i were you I would drop a line and say HIYA* just wanted to see how things are on your end? How is everyone*?
Sometimes it's easier to talk with someone on the pc rather than in person* You can get to know your cousins more..their interests in music, etc*
It's up to you tho*~
2007-03-04 03:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should add them....by talking to them online, you can get to know them and build a relationship and comfort level so that when you visit them, it will be easier to talk. You never know, they could end up being very close to you.
2007-03-04 03:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would they know you searched them unless you told them?
I say you message them and if they talk without being nervous then add them. and maybe you guys will be able to talk when you go and visit.
2007-03-04 03:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Shamona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should add them up n talk to them...family is family...omg..its so great to have cousins around u...to be close to them...to have fun with them..u should break the ice..it's not weird at all....good luck
2007-03-04 03:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... well if u think that they would recognize u....
or my own opinion is go with ur feeling......
u should know best what to do ... but since u barely talk to tem i would start with the one that ur closest to or that might remeber u most.......
2007-03-04 03:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋