She was my cousine and her name was Sheyda.She was same age as me and I'm now 15.
We were SOO close and I had told her my secrets. I loved her SOOO much.
but 1.5 years ago Sheyda and her family went to another country.and 3.5 months ago she...died
OMG I don't know what should I do without her.I can't stop crying and thinking baout her.I cry alot I can't belive that...
I couldnt go to her funeral so I couldnt say goodbye I just wanted to kiss her for the last time...
I don't know what shoud I do?I WANT HER BACK!!
I need to talk about her with someone but noone can exactly understand what I am saying.
plz plz plz plz plz help me...!!
2007-03-04 02:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you are feeling is grief and hurt, and the people that are answering you have experienced that.
Write a letter to her Mom and Dad and tell them how you feel.
It will help you in your grief and it will let her parents know that
she was loved.
Remember
She not gone, she is in the sunshine, she is in the wind, when you look to the stars she's there, she is forever in your heart.
You can have a picture of her put on a necklaces wear it forever or until hurt has gone....
I wore a necklaces for 15 years before I took it off.
It helped me knowing I had something with me always.
2007-03-04 03:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Grogan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are going through a really rough time right now. Trust me, it will get better, even though it doesnt seem like it at all right now. Can you talk to your mom about this. You should have went to the funeral, it would have really helped you!!! It gives you some closer. Mabey in a couple of days go and visit her grave ( I know that sounds mean right now) and say goodbye and tell her how much you love her. It will help you, it will be hard. But it will help. Never stop thinking about her. She is always watching over you!! Take as much time as you need to greave. Dont let anyone rush you with this. This is how you are handleing the pain of losing her. I have lost a lot of people in the last couple of years. And I know how hard it is. Im very close with my cousin as well. It must be extremly hard. I hope this helps you a little and Im so sorry for your loss!!! HUGS!!!
2007-03-04 02:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by SummerLovin' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was your best friend and always will be. No matter what you can't bring her back but that doesn't mean she's not there with you whenever you need her. Don't be afraid to talk to her when you're missing her- I'm sure she's listening. If it helps maybe make a scrapbook of the years you spent together. Or plant a tree or flower for her. It could be something you visit when you need to talk with her, since visiting her grave isn't possible. Because she passed away in another country you never really were able to get closure. Find a personal way to pay homage to your friend and keep in mind that you will meet again someday. until then she will watch over you and help you with your life.
2007-03-04 02:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by Norma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had quite a few friends and family members die 3 in 06. Its so hard because we miss them! Let your tears out and allow yourself that sadness. Everything happens for a reason none of us here on earth know the reasons but we arent in control of things like this! Our creator just loans us out for a while and then takes us back, but i know we miss them terribly. Life is not a cake walk and Sheyda no longer has to bound by all this.. I have heard over and over the good die young.
2007-03-04 02:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angela H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what u going through because my brother died when i was 11 and i never saw him alot cause he was in the navy.But u need to think of the good times yall both went through instead of the bad.And if u want to cry just cry all ur pain out until that memory u think of helps stop that pain.Cause some of the stuff u think bout can cause lot of depression and stress.And if u think of her more u will get her back in ur mind where u both can connect will be in ur heart.
2007-03-04 02:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Young Lyricist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that how you're feeling is completely normal and it's ok to cry as much as you want. Talk to your parents about it or maybe a school counselor. Having someone to listen helps. You could also talk to her parents. I'm sure they are missing her a lot too and might like to hear that someone else feels the same way.
2007-03-04 02:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i know how it feels to lose a best friend. Do you have a pic of her, or you and her together?
If you do, put it in a frame and put it in your room. or if she gave you any presents, I would consider keeping them.
If you do this, it might make you sad at first, but after a while, it makes you think of all the good times you and her had together.
2007-03-04 02:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry girl : { but you still know that she will still be in your heart...............bla bla bla old thought..................if i were you i carry on because if you die she will do the same ok dont cry
2007-03-04 02:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by matmunirss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋