I am fantasizing about my best friend, and didnt tell my boyfriend about my fantasies. Then one night me and her went to his house to hang out and we ended up doing some things in bed together. She didnt know about the fantasies, but now they are even worse than before. I keep thinking about being with other women, but I love my boyfriend alot, and we have been together 7 years. What do I do?
2007-03-04 01:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by Leo_Woman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok, not like I was really cheating. We were in his bed and he was watching, I am pretty sure that he liked it. If he didnt like it, he hasnt said anything bad about it yet and it's been a few days now.
2007-03-04 01:27:06 · update #1
i think it's normal. but try to evaluate yourself and see if you're bi or gay.
2007-03-11 17:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by nate o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, THAT IS PERFECTLY NORMAL!!!
First you should ask yourself this:
1.are you sexualy attracted only to a women ?, and
2.do you fall in love only with women ?-then you are lesbian (gay),
3.and are you sexualy attracted both to a women and to a men, and do you fall in love both to a women and to a men ?(if that is the case, then you are bisexual!)
What do you do? Hm..., well let me see...
You should ask yourself are you in love with that girl! But, when you answer these questions you will know are you gay or bi, and then, if you are gay or bi, you should tell that girl about your feelings for her, and you should ask her what are her feelings for you!
And if she has those kind of feelings for you, then maybe you and her can have a good relationship!
If you are gay or bi, then you must tell your boyfriend! If he realy loves you, then he will understand!
And then after this, you should ask yourself whom do you love more: boyfriend or that girl? and are you REALY living you live, or are you living A LIE???...
Anyway, if you answer this questions, you will know what to do!!!
Good luck!
kiss!
AND JUST GO FOR IT!!!
2007-03-10 18:21:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be uneasy. Bisexuality is normal in women. Men and women are wired differently. Most women weather they are willing to admit or accept it, are in fact "BI". If you want to involve your boyfriend I'm sure he will oblige. However if you don't want him involved due to jealousy, it may cause a conflict in your relationship. Just use good judgment
2007-03-04 09:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you can't possibly love him....cheating is cheating, whether with the same sex or not....everyone deserves to be NO.1 is someone's life and vice versa...being No.2 sux in any relationship...Take time out on your own get to know you then begin a relationship with that special No. 1 person.......
2007-03-04 09:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hey i would keep doing when he is there he can know when he is not there he doesnt have to know!! i slept with my best friend many times and never told my husband only because he did not like her!! but even if he wanted to be there which he would have if he had like her there would have been times i would have not wanted him there!!:P:P
2007-03-05 17:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal, it just means that you are sexually attracted to the same sex but STILL emotionally attracted to the opposite sex. Just don't tell your boyfriend, you must learn to keep secrets for yourself.
2007-03-04 09:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Yej 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Sounds like you're bisexual. Do you think your boyfriend would be open to having a 3sum?
2007-03-04 09:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by What'd You Say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your bf should give both you and your friend a good spanking!
And then, let the fun games begin.
2007-03-04 09:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has his own ideas of you and your girlfriend being together. Maybe you can have your cake and your tart too.
2007-03-10 09:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. PDQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most likely bisexual...Well tell him if you feel you need to tell him...i told my bf sumthing like that and he just got all mad and he doesn't like that im bi
2007-03-04 13:51:31 · answer #10 · answered by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still love him and do sexy with him dont leave the bed
2007-03-04 09:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by ME.....& LOVE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋