I have a few fantasies that I'm not sure if I should talk with my wife about, these fantasies are not easy to talk about. 1. being humiliated because I have a small ****. 2. Watching her make love with another guy much more studly then me.
She is kind of vanilla, so I'm not sure if I should even bring it up.
2007-03-04 01:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if you want to. This is totally up to you bud. However you need to be careful when wanting her to be with another guy as this will lead to trouble someday and she may not end up wanting to be with you because of it. If you are so small you know they make enhancing cremes and ways to help make it grow.
2007-03-04 01:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is out of my league. Hopefully you'll have an answer from someone that has "been there, done that" and can assist you with helping you make you decision. I think you would need to be prepared for if she accepted it and also if she didn't. If you don't talk about it to her you'll never know and what could be the worse thing that would happen? Communication is very important in a marriage, some things are more delicate than others to discuss but you know her better than anyone else (I hope). Maybe ask her if she has any fantasies she would like to share with you?
2007-03-04 01:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by Changes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours are very common fantasies, but it's very uncommon for them to be shared by women. Point of fact: the size of your organ makes virtually no difference. The part of her body that's most sensitive to intimacy is not inside her tunnel of love - the "g" spot does not exist.
You can satisfy her most intimate needs as effectively with a four-inch one as with a nine-inch one.
Secondly, one does not have to be built like a weightlifter. A man who's grossly overweight can be a turn-off just as a woman with the same shortcoming can be - but even there, caring and sensitivity and a willingness to compromise can bring astonishing success.
You've probably answered your own question in your last sentence. Leave it in the fantasy world and don't try to manipulate her into asking about your fantasies. If you've asked about hers and she's indicated she does not, or rarely does, engage in fantasies regarding sex, take her at her word. That's indeed a major difference between men and women. Be glad for what you have in this woman and treat her like a princess. And act like you're worth her attention: no more of this crud about your teeny weenie!
2007-03-04 01:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have this fantasy too and I shared it with my wife. She was timid at the beginning. But when the right time, right place and right person appears, she did it! And both of us enjoys it very much! And she is now actively searching for new boy friend just for sex. And we have done it since three years back. She loves me more since than, and she is more health conscious. In conclusion, we both trusted each other and we love each other so much! And improve our sex life very much! I must say you need to tell your wife....
2007-03-04 02:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by allan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go sharing your sexual fantasies with your wife, you should think carefully about what you hope to gain by this.
Usually when we want to share fantasies with a partner, our underlying hope is that she will fully and willingly agree to act out them with us.
But you describe your wife as "kind of vanilla," by which I think you must mean that she's pretty "conventional" and "straight-laced" when it comes to things sexual. If this is so, then it's highly likely that she will be freaked-out by these fantasies of yours, and it could well do some significant damage to your whole relationship.
Everybody probably has many thoughts and fantasies that would be best kept to themselves, and my sense about your situation is that you should think very, very carefully before you go talking to your wife about these particular ideas.
2007-03-04 01:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by clicksqueek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's going to answer this: You should bring it up if you want to. You should bring it up in a receptive and sharing moment. Sometimes having your fantasies 'out there' can decrease your desire to do them but that doesn't always happen. It's very scary when you open up to someone like this but it actually could strengthen your bond. Good luck to you.
2007-03-04 01:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Yogini 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you bring it up does not mean she is going to do it. May you just telling her about it will make it all that much better for you.
2007-03-04 01:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Just talk slow so that if she gets freaked out you can shut up. And make sure she doesn't go blabbing it to all her friends.
2007-03-04 07:41:34 · answer #8 · answered by Li 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what she'll say but I'll ask her after she finishes giving me this great B L O W J O B. She she knows how to suck a mean C O C K and I love it when she swallows.
2007-03-04 01:23:19 · answer #9 · answered by Bobby B 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are you nuts?
Keep that to yourself.
How humiliated are you going to feel when she dumps you for the "big one"?
2007-03-04 02:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋