Nobdy wants me back neither my family, nor my society after my divorce, this is wht our culture called? as my family, my relatives, my friends evrybdy feels shame for me. i have no way to go. dnt knw sht shud i do? myhsbnd cheated me so badly. i dnt think i will live long with this shock....................
2007-03-03 23:18:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry thats really the price you pay for not loving yourself. No better way to put it and we all carry our own scars for selling ourselves short. Really a matter of course, the best bet for you is to get over your short coming because chances are you fought pretty hard to avoid it. If he is the one at fault and those in your life that love you can't see that and forgive you then maybe there not who you should be turning to. Now as far as society goes its not going to look down on you more then 50% of all marriages end in divorce within the first 2 years. Now I guess most of your firends must of been his friends not to see how he cheated on you so badly so there not the type you want to be assoicated with. From the sounds of it you needed to work on your outside relationships before you ever got married because thats a damn hard thing to go thru by yourself even when its working. Besides you deserve friends outside of him and the fact that you didn't do that for yourself is another reason your hurting. Be happy your out of that hell and it can only get better for you, learn from it, grow and gain some wisdom. People will see that you've grown stronger from this scar and they'll need to respect and know you. Shoot one day someone else will truly love you.
2007-03-05 02:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋