....why? And they won't even speak to you to tell you what they are angry about?
2007-03-03 22:31:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
So frustrating!
2007-03-03 22:31:46 · update #1
Yup...and if that's the game they want to play...all I have to say is...'grow up', and I won't give in to that immaturity.
2007-03-04 08:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by LUCIFER 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(*laughter*) More than once.
The last time that sticks out was the secretary at work stopped talking to me. It was a small department, so it was pretty obvious. I tried to find out what was wrong, but no luck. So, I decided to heck with it. I hadn't done anything to her that I could think of, and decided it was her problem.
A couple of months later, she announced to me that because she was a "good Christian" she decided to forgive me. I told her I had no idea what she was upset about. It seems she had wanted to plan the departmental Christmas lunch, but I had just gone and done it without asking her. (I'd been the one doing it every year, and would have been thrilled if someone else had stepped up and done it!) Then she told me, if I was a "good friend" I would have known what was wrong.
That did it...I told her I wasn't psychic, and perhaps this need to have people be able to read her mind was what was holding her back in her personal life.
She stopped talking to me again. Go figure. Thing is, I didn't miss it.
If you honestly evaluate what you've done and said to the person, and can't come up with anything, you've done everything you can. You can also try saying, "I don't know why you're upset, but if I've done something, it makes it easier to not repeat the same mistake and apologize if you let me know what it was."
Frankly, someone who is that petty and childish probably needs to be off your list of people to worry about. The only reason they do this is to "punish" you. They don't actually want it resolved, they want you to suffer.
Suffering really isn't one of those things on my personal "to do" list.
2007-03-04 06:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kaia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...actually...I have a friend that I met in 4th grade...we grew up together...& lost touch with each other when we were 21....I found her again last yr...& we were getting back to being best friends again....BUT something happened & I dont know....she wont take my calls...I am on block with her emails....I am off ALL of her friends lists...& I never got an explanation....I don't even know what happened....the last time we talked...we were joking & laughing...the next day.....BAM!....it was all over.....
Her Mother said it was because I had brought a guy she was dating in High School that her current Husband has had some run ins with & Her Husband didn't like the fact that I brought the other guy up....but I didn't know....but apperantly her Husband said I was trouble....I don't know....it would be nice to know though...
Strange....you think you know someone.....hmmmmm
2007-03-04 06:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I'm in the same boat right now. I haven't talked to my friend for over two months now. I try calling, texting, IMs, e-mails...she doesn't reply. She's supposed to be my best friend. It's not supposed to be like this.
Despite that, I still hold on to some sliver of hope that someday, she'll call.
2007-03-04 06:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by RainCity17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Forget about them...ignore them...go about your business...they're dying to tell you and that seems to work the fastest in getting to the bottom of the offense.
2007-03-04 06:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some times near people to u get mad without reason
2007-03-04 06:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When people do that, it's usually because they have been lying to you and need to break away. They think that ''playing mad'' will ease their guilt.
2007-03-04 06:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, cause they expect you to know what you did wrong...usually happens with male/female relationship matters...wife/husband stereotypical kind of arguements...things like dishes, interuptting a football game, etc etc.
2007-03-04 06:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by staceandrea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.
2007-03-04 06:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ben 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
" You don't beat a dead horse ".
That's what trying to talk to them is like.
They form their opinion, and that's all they hear.
Things you didn't even say. You say that, and then
they stop talking. A waste of time, and emotion.
2007-03-04 06:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋