i love a girl since a began highschool (about 5 years ago.. now i'm at college) and it's tough because she doesn't love me, she has a boyfriend and even if she respects me and she's still a good friend (the highschool it's over now) i feel i'm losing myself by each passed day because i don't see her.. (we're quite distant now even if you are in the same city). i told her about 2 months ago how much i loved her and how much i still miss her.. and she said it's ok for her to meet with me sometimes and to talk.. but nothing more.. and she also said "don't make any hopes". ... and this really sucks because i just can't forget her.. i'm 19 and i never had a girlfriend because i can't love any other girl...
so.. my question is.. what should i do to forget her ? please give some several choices.. may be someone of you will help me..
2007-03-03 21:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by nobody100 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you remember the good times with her, it is your right and your memory.
you are in fact the votary of the Lotus Sutra. Such is your destiny. You will understand it later. it is patern that usually happens to votaries of the Lotus Sutra.
and why? the hero meets the greatest obstacles.
please answer me: do you want to save the world or to be in love? do you know who you are? do you know that you are chosen one?
sasko27@yahoo.com
2007-03-03 22:05:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to her, and tell her not to contact you. You need to say goodbye to her, because she is never going to love you the way you want. You obviously can't be friends with her. You need to cut off all contact. Avoid anywhere that she hangs out.
After that, give it time and see other people. You don't have to jump into a relationship. Just date a lot of different women. I am 31, and I have met a lot of women since I was your age. I still haven't found the right one. So don't get discouraged. Live your life and have fun.
2007-03-04 06:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by wileycoyote_the_supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to just forget about someone quickly. It will take time to get over her. Try getting out of the house and hanging with mates. Maybe hit the beach and check out some chicks. It might help you take your mind off her. Maybe this can be a start of getting over her. Hope this can help.
2007-03-04 06:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by PWD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divert your attention to something else, join an organization, engage into sports, play video games or do something that you really enjoy,, there are a lot of girls out there who might be the right one for you, maybe she isn't just the one for you, you know, breakups sucks but who knows that it was a blessing in disguise that you'll meet someone much more interesting than her, more adorable and more lovable, you just need to look around.. or maybe you just need to socialize more and see if you really need a girlfriend.., watch movies, attend or organize parties,...
2007-03-04 06:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by anne raqsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: your life is not over because you can't have her.
2: get a life.
3: no such word as can't... it is won't
4: no shame in getting professional counselling.. relationship counselling is what you need to get into.. to learn how to LOVE SMART
5: watch Dr Phil. and learn from him.. he's does have real answers.
6: remember that it is YOUR choice as to how you let your feelings affect you... and YOUR responsibility as to how this affects people around you
2007-03-04 06:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by kiwibryntoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man there is not just 1 fish in the sea so forget her & search for the 1 who will love u.....
2007-03-04 06:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by colombo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Widen your social network, take up more courses of your interest. Isnt it nice to meet someone who shares the same interest as you ;)
2007-03-04 06:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ashlyn Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry along with you an enclosed can of someone's fart. Every time you think of her, just open it up and take a big whiff of it.
2007-03-04 06:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Socialize with friends. You will find a new girl that is compatible with you and loves you too, yourself.
2007-03-04 06:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over a girl is to get under another one
2007-03-04 06:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by ste1266 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋