One of my friend stole few sum of money from my bag.....i saw her taking,when she saw me she ran away. Due to some reason i couldn't talk to her immediatly.... Befor i tel that to my other friends she talked to them n said that someone else tried to stel money from my bag n she stoped it....
i was shocked.. cos i saw her taking money from my bag. since i saw she left it. This is second experiance from her.........First time i din see her steeling, but no one opened my bag otherthan that girl.but this time i saw her taking....
what do i do? cos other friends belive her as good girl............
2007-03-03 21:13:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hmm....Its really up to you to decide waht her intentions were.
I've pocketed my friends mother's jewlery before becuase he got too drunk at his own party and passed out. I saw kids i never saw before in my life go into his parents room and a few people saw me do it, so when his older bro got back i let him know what the deal was.
I'm a little bit shifted towards there are good people out there too, because i lost my credit card today and didnt even know until i saw an e-mail 15 min later saying someone found it.
I think it is a little bit akward she ran away.....if you consider her a good friend...you probably will still be friends even if she was trying to take your money, so throw that out there and ask her what really happened.
2007-03-03 21:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by My name is not bruce 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone believes her to be a girl, then she mite be in need of money? Or she holds grudges against you? Take the initiative to talk to her. What is the matter? Tell her it is wrong to invade people's privacy and to steal. But you totally understand if she can reason. If she freaks out or run away, you have tried and thus you should keep distance from her. Sometimes pretty faces can mask great evil. If you are willing to be trying to be friends, forgive her and put up some boundaries in the friendship. Wish u the best.
2007-03-04 05:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAUGHT HER STEALING FROM YOUR BAG!!!! HELLO!!! You make it perfectly clear to her and your other friends that you know exactly what she was doing and that you don't trust her around your things. Explain to your other friends that you SAW her taking the money, no matter what you do don't back down from this. Make her admit she was trying to steal from you and always keep an eye on her. If your other friends don't believe you then just wait. Stealing is a habit and one day she'll slip up in front of someone else and they'll know you were telling the truth. In the meantime, stay away from the girl and make it clear that you want nothign to do with her. Don't trust a word she says and never leave her alone with anyone's stuff.
2007-03-04 05:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you actually saw her stealing from you, then you don't need friends like that. She wouldn't have run away if she was trying to stop someone else. It doesn't matter what your other friends believe. If you know this is true, stick to the truth and maybe the others will eventually see it too. If you care about this friendship, ask her why she needed the money so bad?
2007-03-08 00:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your money back, the only thing to do is confront her face to face and tell her you saw and you know. She'll try to deny it and leave but don't let her. As much as you can, try not to get angry, she'll get defensive. My guess is that your friend is in pretty desperate straits right now. See if you can check out of there's something going on in her life that's forcing her to the extremes or if she's just a petty thief. If something really is going on, try to approach her with sensitivity. If nothing is, just go ahead full force.
2007-03-04 05:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by cult of elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend might be affected by a disease called kleptomania. If you also believe it may be so, you might help her to consult a therapist so she may try to get rid of that detrimental and shameful habit.
Another and maybe easier possibility for you is to keep your bag at a safer place, or at a place where you can see it.
Good luck to you!
2007-03-04 05:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if u r her good friend thn go to her n tok to her.get to knw whts the reasone behind this?ask her plitely.but if she dont tell u the truth or try to point to other thn i think u hv to be hard on her.coz who knws if she keeps on doing this ,next time she might creat a big problem and u cant do anything.so i guess u can tok to her n ask her why she did it?k..
2007-03-04 05:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by pinky_noor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing i can say is that you should be more careful in your handling of the money and also don't even consider her a friend because she is trouble.... always remember this "if you don't give opportunity for anybody to steal money from you, then they won't steal money from you and go somewhere else"...
2007-03-04 06:03:27 · answer #8 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either really talk to her and try to put back the friendship with new and clear boundaries or let her go as a friend. you can either try to help her or take your loss and decide you can't do anything for her....
2007-03-04 05:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
steal you mean? you shouldn't be friends with someone who steals from you unless you are willing to forgive them and if they didn't mean to do that.
2007-03-04 05:20:16 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋