where is my life going?

Question

38 mother of one and separated
living with parents
socially inactive
desparate

Answer 1

You seem to be going through some tough times in life...
I know a friend who is in the same situation as you are.
The only difference is she's only 17 years old...
Anyways, my dear as hard as life may be now days...just know that things always turn out fine. Keep trying your best & keep your head held high.

God bless
& Take care :)

Answer 2

i know the suggestion of a counsellor isn't the most appealing but you'll realise by seeing one and just chatting that in the end you yourself can see things that interest you and become more confident in directing your own life.

maybe even start by moving out from your parents home and gaining more independence with your child (if they are still full time in your care?). find a job, or another one that you really enjoy, do some study. its never too late to do what you want and don't worry about men until you are happy in yourself otherwise you'll end up going with a bunch of not very nice guys and end up hurting yourself (and your child if sheor he is still only young).

Only you can make things happen in your life so stand up tall, find something that makes you happy and focus on achieving it without worrying about partners or money or being boring. you'll find you'll gain friends along the way if you have confidence and will end up feeling better about yourself than sitting at home wondering where you'll end up without making any proper effort to direct yourown life.

all the best, i hope everything works out well for you :-)

Answer 3

You sill have too many things to offer.. Do not take out your self esteem.. You should not be thinking that way, instead you should be thinking what kind of future I can offer to my child...

Go and find a job so you will realize your worth..

Answer 4

To Disney world.