2007-03-03 20:50:11 · 16 answers · asked by zaktotal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communication,compromise etc.Keep the relationship interesting and never fall into routine.If you feel things may be becoming mundane,Do something together,join a club,group etc and keep the relationship exciting.
2007-03-03 20:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't stay the same and neither do the people in the relationship. Time, experience, family and the world around them, causes individuals and couples to grow and change.
Communication and the ability to devote time and energy to a relationship in good times and bad will do the same for love.
A good example are children......The love that you have for an infant that is dependent on you is different than the love you have for the child as ten year old.
If you think about having a second child would you wonder if you could love them as much as you did the first child?
Love and people are constantly growing and changing and you get back.....what you put into it.
2007-03-06 02:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by demarkation_line 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i have been married 10 years and i love him even more now then i did at first///1 talking,joking around i mean just saying or doing something stupid just to make each other laugh I'm sure my husband thinks I'm a fruitcake but we do have 5 young kids , who drive us mad that could cause a lot of arguing but we work as a team also we flirt with each other alot still kiss cuddle or just saying i love u out of the blue talking about when you first met is also sexy anyway it works for us i hope it does for you too good luck?
2007-03-07 00:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by sarah o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not keep the love the same for many years. the love gets stronger and stronger i love my man more now after 28 years. but the trick is to be honest with each other at all times there is no problem that can not be sorted if you talk and be honest with each other.
2007-03-03 21:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by mamgu....... 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After cohabitating for many years ,I think the bond is just a habit.You get used to it like living in the same house or apartment
2007-03-04 05:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
People seem to worry about this one the answer is you shouldn't have to try. If you are both right for each other then you shouldn't need to put any extra effort into your relationship. It should just keep ticking over on its own. If you are having to put extra effort into keeping your partner interested then its time to cut the cord because they have other ideas.
Regards
Idai
2007-03-03 22:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ever you feel down or fed up with your partner just think of how it would be without them and how you felt at times that you needed them and they were there. have a cuddle and tell them you love them. I've been with my hubby 8 years and married 6, this works for us, we are happy and more in love as each year goes by x
2007-03-04 03:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by sparkytasa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are different degrees of love...And love changes over a period of time. I don't think that people can love one another the same after many years. It will either grow stronger or weaker.
2007-03-03 20:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by djsbabygirl2005 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Bear in mind that it is important to adjust to each other's needs over time; Differences and viewpoints will surfaced so with arguments. Communications is most vital for any relationship to work.
2007-03-03 20:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just keep loving.
2007-03-03 20:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋