I just heard that according to the bla bla surveys "52%"(my GOD) of the women fake it!!! How do I tell that my girlfriend is not faking it???
I mean to what extent am I responsible for the consequences of her actions? I am trying my best but I don't even know if she is enjoying it or NOT... Please help:(((
2007-03-03 20:09:40 · 14 answers · asked by COBAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women generally take15 min or so to reach orgasm...
2007-03-03 20:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Nick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her! Many (if not most) women cannot reach orgasm from intercourse alone. Ask her if there is anything you can do to help her get there. Try different techniques. Use toys, oral or manual stimulation. If your GF cares about you and your feelings, she will be honest with you. Sexual compatability is something that has be worked for. Besides, think of all the fun you will have as the two of you practice the various techniques that work best for you. Go buy a sexual manual (found in most bookstores). You and your GF can read through it together and learn together to please each other. Making love is a learned experience. Remember that.
2007-03-04 11:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best bet is to ask her without making each other uncomfortable if you want to do a bit of playing around (included in foreplay) and let each other know what you like. some women are more turned on with foreplay than just jumping straight into the sex and end up not faking it then!!
Its just as frustrating for a woman when she ends up faking it and doesnt get the pleasure that she really wants in the end. and women take longer than men so foreplay is always a better way so that both parties are satisfied
have fun!
2007-03-04 04:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell, you are not focusing on her enough.
I'm sorry to sound so blunt, but there is no possible way that my wife could fake it. There are very real signs that she is having an orgasm. (This is not the right place for such details.) If you are really good at focusing completely on her, then you will be able to please her every time. It's not like us guys have to focus on ourselves. We know we are going to ***. We should be focusing completely on the women we love. This is a time to show them how much we care. If a man can't make his lover have an orgasm every time, then he must not care as much as he should.
Focus. Watch her. Listen to her body. Do wants she wants, not what you want.
2007-03-04 04:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you will never know unless you know that she is a honest person.
Hopefully you two communicate during the act. You cannot have a relationship with out communication at all times.
2007-03-04 04:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by JNM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said before you asking the wrong sex, look she will tell you when the relationship is over then you could ask her why.
2007-03-04 04:14:26 · answer #6 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is dry, its fake. If she is soaked and you can feel the spasms on your member, not fake.
2007-03-04 04:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you dump her , if shes mad means she was faking it . If shes sad means she really loved you .
2007-03-04 04:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. hopefully she is being honest with you, but if you spend all this time worrying, then nothing will work right.
2007-03-04 04:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her honestly. but if you really know how to play... she won't fake it!
2007-03-04 04:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by exo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋