men in general?

Question

why do men never keep there promises, do they think with, whats in there pants? Do they not realise they are killing a relationship and sooner or later when things have gone pearshaped they wonder why

Answer 1

I guarantee you that not all men are like that.
I found one (after many men like the type you're referring to), to whom I ended up getting married.
He has kept almost every promise he's ever made to me, and was very respectful toward me in regards to trying to remain sexually pure until we were married.
I'm sorry to hear that your guy is hurting you, or has hurt you. Perhaps the best thing at this point would be to let him go, and wait for a more respectable one to come along and sweep you off your feet. After all, you don't want to live with someone you resent for the rest of your life!

Answer 2

Yes,men do think with their lower regions 95% of the time. 2% of time to sport and beer, 2% to food and sleep and the remaining 1% to work issues. So they don't think about relationships at all, just football, beer, kebab and sex, in that order. They start to worry about settling down when Mummy throws them out and they realise that washing cooking ironing shopping etc isn't done by the fairies in the middle of the night so they look around for a little woman to take over from Mummy. Unfortunately, most women seem to like this role [for a while anyway] so men get away with all kinds of behaviour under the pretext of 'well, he's only a man after all'

Answer 3

Wow, there are some really angry women here!
You are causing yourself pain by waiting for the bad thing to happen, or a mistake to be made. Some men don't keep promises in the same way as some women say I love you when they want something. It's not all of us (or them).

Answer 4

there are alot of liers and people who make false promises out there who are male and female and it depends how long u take to realise it keep them in your life.
Its not your fault, u probably like to think the best of people and hope someone isnt going to be a scumbag again but then it happens and it messes our heads.
Keep your eyes open and smile and the nice ones will find u.

Answer 5

Try to avoid having this negative relationship contaminate your view of men.
The issue is person specific - not general, so get a grip.

Answer 6

I think you mean why do SOME men - - - -

I for one always keep promisees as im sure a lot of other guys around here do too.

as for thinking with what's in our pants I know there are many fems who are worse than guys.

we are not all the same.

Answer 7

Not all of us are like that, but I know that is hard to believe after finding one man after another and another who disappoints you.

I can speak for many of my friends when I say most men do think with "what's in their pants" as you put it. But not all of us do that.

Answer 8

I agree with jenn in that all guys are not like that and this route of generalization just does not work as all men are different, believe it or not.

Answer 9

been there and yes they do think with their dick but like you said they wonder why things don`t work out and they can`t see that it is them that is doing all the wrong things or they know but won`t admit it, why do they think they are so superior to us when all the time they haven't a clue

Answer 10

There are two men in this world

Those who think with their heart...
& then there are those who think with there...well you know...

A lot of men these days are all dogs...Heck I wouldn't even call them men more like "boys"...

Girl just keep yours open for a real man who will treat you right.
Don't even weep over them little boys who can't think for themselfs just there *ahem* you know...

You'll find that special one, just give it time alright? =]

Good luck girly