That he wont expect and will drive him totally crazy?????
2007-03-03 18:57:16 · 15 answers · asked by karena k 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is his best friends 40th bday soon and I was thinking of a three some. How do I bring this up. What if he gets mad and then thinks I want his bestfriend?????
2007-03-03 19:05:52 · update #1
But you DO want his best friend or you would not have brought it up here. Has he said in the past that the idea of a threesome - you getting it on with him and another guy was a fantasy of his? If not, I'd leave it alone. If you've really got the hots for this other guy, take a cold shower. If, OTOH, your hubby DID say that this has been a fantasy of his, you might simply remind him of it and ask if he actually meant it or if it was nothing more than a fantasy. If he really meant it, warn him to be careful what you wish for, and that everything of this nature always seems to follow the law of unintended consequences. IOW, if you were to do this with his friend, you're liable not to be able to avoid this sucka from that point on - he'll be there bugging you for a re-run time and again! And how long would it be before your hubby began to get real tired of that game? Better think it over REAL carefully!
2007-03-04 02:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know of a very secluded country road where there is no traffic or houses for miles, this is a good one. The night before, pack a camera(preferrably a digital) in your purse and in the car place a blanket, an extra set of clothes for yourself, and a CD radio with music(something sensual to dance to). Make sure that neither of you has made plans for the next day. Ask him if after he gets off work, he will take you someplace when he gets home and you can't tell him where because you want it to be a surprise? Stress to him it's really important to you. The next day, find some clothes(a dress works best) that you can live without and make some tiny cuts in the hem that you can rip it off easily. Make sure you are dressed before he gets home(very sexy underwear included) and when he gets there hand him a blindfold and tell him you need to drive. Remind him it's a surprise. When you get to this special place tell him to sit still(with the blindfold on) and wait for you a minute and place the camera in the seat. Get the radio out, turn it on, and tell him to take the blindfold off and get the camera. Standing outside the car start a seductive dance and tell him to start taking pictures. Take a couple of minutes to drive him crazy and rip the dress off and throw it away. Finishing the dance in the buff will definitely be the wildest thing he will ever remember and he will cherish the pictures. Use your imagination for what happens afterwards with the blanket. Good Luck. My wife enjoyed it.
2007-03-03 19:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
threesome?? well, thats not my way of fullfilling my man's fantasies.. cause i belive in being a one man's woman. i'll do anything out of his wildest dreams but never letting him have a hint that i wanna do it with some other man.! never! well, it also depends on how ur husband think about threeomes. have he ever said that threesome would be nice? or have he ever gave u any hint that he would like to have one? if he did, then i guess u may ask him, but yet its his best friend>>! freaky! cumon. y don't both of u sit down n start talking bout urs n his fantasies while having some foreplay going on..! that would be good! n it'll sure lead to something really good! wink ;)
2007-03-03 19:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by ~ sya ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are into 3-somes. It sparked our sex life up tremendously. But you have to be careful bringing another guy in as the 3rd right off. If you can find another woman maybe. Then after he is warmed up to the idea, bring up a guy for you. We started by being honest and she started little by little telling me things that turned her on... and the thought of me and another woman came up. Then after that she brought up another guy. Took me a few days to think it over but it was only fair and found that I enjoyed watching it. We do this about once a month now and its great.
2007-03-03 20:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what fantasy attracts you. If you're not into it you won't do it well, so do it for yourself with your husband as the lucky recipient.
What sort of fantasies do you dream about when you're alone? Think of one that you'd think your husband would also like and go for it!
Enjoy!!
2007-03-03 19:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 10:15:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its obvious. Bring one of your hottie friends in for a 3some. That will surprise and fulfill his fantasy.
2007-03-03 19:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I could contact my husband but I can't due to a restraining order i would let him know He has been busted 4 a long time... Thank to my uncle Lol...lol...lol... Money went to use wisey on his escapades!!! Lol...lol...... Iv'e known 4 a long time now hes done! HA!!!!
2007-03-03 19:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to bring in a chick for the threesome, not a dude. That wil only piss him off unless he's a ****
2007-03-03 19:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Paul Frehley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While your at it send me a pic of you in a elf suit eating a falafal while standing atop mt Everast,, my fantasy.... tricky mind....
2007-03-03 19:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by 1000 Man Embassy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋