Why do baby lovers hate people who don't like babies?

Question

It drives me crazy when people who love babies thinks that everybody who DOESNT love babies is full of hate and doesnt deserve to live. We all have our likes and dislikes. Some like loud, wailing miniature humans who can't take care of themselves, and some don't. It doesn't make us a good or a bad person, some people just love that sort of thing and others maybe cant stand it.

YES I UNDERSTAND that at one point I was a baby also. This is an argument made for baby lovers, but it has nothing to do with the point. I didn't CHOOSE to be born, to be a baby, now did I? So just because i happened to be one at one point INVOLUNTARILY it does NOT mean that i MUST love all babies. OK????

So all you baby lovers theres nothing wrong with you but just GIVE US SOME SLACK AND LET OFF IT, OK??? I posted a question saying that i didnt like babies and people thought i was some physco human killer who didn't deserve to live..

I am a person full of a lot of love. I rescue animals all the time.

I love animals, and would do anything for them, but i just happen to dislike babies. I wont hurt them, i just dislike them and i have the right to my likes and dislikes.

Answer 1

goo goo gaa gaa

Answer 2

I understand you!! I am the mother of two grown children. I don't know if it's an age thing, but when friends or my husband's relatives bring their babies/toddlers/children/pre teens over to visit I just wish that they would take them back home. I don't hate them, but I just don't connect. I'm just glad that my kids (20+years old) have not had kids --- and they don't want to! I also have two sisters who feel the same way. BTW... we (my sisters and I) are all over 35+. I am not an aunt, never will be, and I hope never to be a grandma.

Answer 3

I agree with you 100%. You are not alone, I don't like babies either. I do not have any babies, and I rarely get the chance to speak about this because I am always too worried of what other people might say.

Answer 4

I'm a baby lover. My best friend doesn't like babies or children at all. We agree to disagree on that point.

Why paint everybody with the same brush?

Answer 5

because of fact "infant" is planned to be candy like slightly infant. once you hear infant you thi nk of the thrill of slightly newborn. toddlers are pampered and dealt with as a much companion might choose to do for their companion! =] x

Answer 6

I may not have any kids of my own(and I like it that way) but it doesn't mean I don't like kids. It just means that I like them when I can give them back to their parents!

Answer 7

I sense that there is something you want to talk about......

I don't think you are a hateful person....I don't particularily like children myself...I try to but I don't....I will like my own children very much I'm sure but I don't like other peoples children....just like my mother....I too am a very loving person in general

Answer 8

i am not like that, if a coupl doesn't have children it could be a variety of resons and people hould not assume

cheers

Answer 9

Yea, and why do they have a baby when they don't even love the people that are here?

Answer 10

Formative upbringing and situational acclimation...preferences based upon the person evolving, circumstances or environment,...and ultimately, bonding with the formative parental figures.....

Answer 11

it does not bother me at all, but it DOES bother me when they try to tell me how to raise my children. They have NO idea what it is like until they try it themselves. If they don't want kids then it is best that they don't and if they accidently have one I will take it