My bf and I are 2 yrs.engaged now.There was a time we argued and he wants break up with me but I am crying hard and he even tell me to return our engagement ring.I was kissing his feet just not to break up with me.Asking me to leave but the following day he said thank you to me for not leaving and he said,he's just mad and angry.What would u feel as a man if a girl does all of this kissing feet and kneeling down infront of him.Am I losing self respect here?Does my bf still respect me or will take me for granted again?
2007-03-03 18:38:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I only wish mine would do that
2007-03-03 18:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by moolie_wfo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The detail that sticks out to me is that you have been engaged for two years. Why did you mention it? Do you feel like that is a long engagement and want him commit? or did you just think it was a good way to let us know how serious you guys are? I think that if you love someone you should be able to be completely vulnerable and still be completely comfortable. As far as the respect factor, you can never lose respect for someone that you love.
2007-03-03 19:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Judge Fudge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion I would not ever expect my girl to do that, but hey thats just me, I dont know whether I would loose respect for her, but there is no reason for him to change his mind so quickly, I mean why one day is he saying it is over the next he is thankful to have you. You need to stop and think about whether or not you want to deal with that for the rest of your life as I am sure that he is going to pull this sort of thing again. You seem very nice and deserve someone that respects you and would not expect such things. Good luck
2007-03-03 18:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by rokid_syndisd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this depends on why you two were fighting. If it was your fault, you did something awful, and were begging for forgiveness, and he loved you enough to forgive you. then I think you don't loose self respect. But if he is just an awful person and he treats you bad on a daily basis, and you kiss his feet... then everyone will loose respect for you.
2007-03-03 20:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you are. If you dont want to loose him let him go. The saying goes "If you love something set it free. If it returns it is yours . If it doesn't it never was." It is true.
2007-03-03 18:43:04 · answer #5 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him immediately! Any guy who degrades a woman like that needs to be shot!
Contact me -- I'm available!
2007-03-03 18:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you he wouldn't have lost respect for you. If he isn't your true love, then yes, that was a bad move.
2007-03-03 18:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by genboy91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will take you for granted again if he already did it once before.
2007-03-03 18:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by countrykarebare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, no respect lost from me...
It confirms she loves me...
Don't let him take you for granted...
Love must be returned...
2007-03-03 18:42:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girlfriend am not even ganna go there with this question, I think you suffered enough.
2007-03-03 18:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a sign of respect so make sure your feet are clean.
2007-03-03 18:43:03 · answer #11 · answered by endgame1915 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋