She's going around telling everybody that she's going out with my bf, but everyone knows about me n my guy and think that we suit each other. At first she said she was doing it just to bugg me, but now she's telling people that he kissed her. No one believes her and nor do I because she has made up things like this before. She got angry and told my bf that I kissed my friend(boy) a few days ago and told that guy's gf that he kissed me a few months ago. She's trying to break 3couples and already succeeded in one. She's acting crazy and many of her friends have gone against her.
I'm trying to think of the best way to mess with her head in return or the best way to teach her a lesson. PLease suggest some. And thank you for your answers in advance.
2007-03-03 18:37:39 · 13 answers · asked by Trisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She once told me that my bf took her out on valentines day and kissed her. I trust my bf and I know he didn't take her out, but he did meet her in college with other friends. I know my bf is serious about me, his whole family knows about me and all his friends too. I trust him and that's why I didn't believe her. So when I found out about the kissing thing, i asked her and she said she did it because I didnt believe that she was going out with my bf. It makes no sence, I know.
She also told my bf that my ex bf's date her later on (which is kinda true, some have) She kissed a guy she knew i liked (long time ago) She also paired up with my ex to see if i still had feeling for him, then too she told people that he kissed her.
She's really crazy.
2007-03-03 19:02:18 · update #1
This chick obviously has some serious mental issues that you should avoid. First...trying to mess with her can infuriate her and cause her to add more trouble to your life. Second...do you really want to keep this kind of person in your life? Crazy people are prone to do crazy things and you definitely don't want to be on the receiving end of one her rampages.
2007-03-03 18:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure, after reading your problem, that I would call this person my best friend. First and foremost, to me, my best friend would never make up things, no matter what the situation, that would jeopardize my relationship with other friends, family, or bf. That's just insane. It sounds to me like you need to steer away from this unwanted company period. Or, you need to give her an ultimatum and be stern with her. Be upfront and let her know that you don't appreciate the way that she is acting and you don't appreciate the comments about your bf.That sounds to me like the only way that you're going to get through to her! This girl is crying for attention and unfortunately, it's taking a toll on you. You don't need to put up with this, nor are you in kindergarden anymore!
Secondly, if you have been with your bf for awhile, and you all have a good relationship, than I wouldn't even worry about what that girl is telling you (notice I didn't refer to her as your best friend). I would discuss this issue with him and just let him know that you're not implying anything and you're not worried, but you're just making sure that all is well. I am sure that he'll understand. But, don't keep questioning him, because that's what will drive him up a wall. Address the situation, get an answer, and be done with it! If he tells you that everything is fine, be confident with that answer, and then leave the topic alone. Don't let this girl, whom obviously has tried to do this to other people, place unwanted thoughts in your head!
Good luck and be careful who you choose as friends. You may think that someone is going to be there for you through whatever....but that's not always the case. Eventually, a true person's colors will show, just let time determine that and always be realistic with yourself. You don't need this unneccessary stress in your life or involving your relationship!
2007-03-08 03:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by mixed_beauties 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, they say trust is the most important aspect of any relationship. So make sure you and your bf are on the clear and have one big trust and faith on each other. The best thing to do is to sit in some quiet place and re assure your trust in each other. Once you do that, you know, you are going to mentally so strong to anything that goes around, anything that you hear on air....you are never going to get disturbed. Chill, there are many like her, who keep talking trash. So just ignore her.
2007-03-03 18:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by grayskys99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, lets get one thing straight. Somene that treats you like this is MOST DEFINATELY NOT your best friend. NO ONE has the right to make up lies like that and treat people the way she's treating them.
You and your boyfriend probably have a perfectly wonderful relationship and i wouldn't want to put that in jeoperdy, so if i was you, i'd move on with your new life ( your boyfriend ) and leave this troublemaker--excuse of a friend---behind! She sounds like a pile of crap who just loves attention and doesn't like the fact that other people have things she doesn't. She's just doing it out of jealous and in need of attention and its pathetic. You're to good to hang around with her.
2007-03-09 19:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple - she is seethingly jealous of your relationship with your BF and you sound really happy. She's trying to get attention, so whenever she is doing all these you write about just ignore it completely, but still have normal conversation about general stuff. She will get over it, in time.
2007-03-03 19:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by fire_mage21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to move on and not be friends with her if that is all she does is cause problems. Sounds like she needs some help.
And as for messing with her head i think that you would be feeding into her and then you would be doing what she is doing and that is wrong.
2007-03-03 18:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to separted your girl and bf make sure that she is making this up just because she did it in the past donot mean something didn't happen now it's best to have family as your bestfriend right now your young people come and go trust your heart payback is never the answer it lead to unnessary drama
2007-03-03 18:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 04:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion is grow up and stop trying to find ways to mess with people. worry about you and your Sh*t. Forget about her and stop letting her petty A*s come in between you and your man. oh and by the way shes no friend!!!
2007-03-03 18:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why she's your best friend?you don't need revenge to pay her off like that.just say to her,why's she doing all this?the key to your problem is to ASK her.if she refuses to tell,you ask her if you had done something bad to her.and also,if you know the other couples,ask them,did any of them done something bad to her.if she says yes,you have problems with her,and apologize to her.if she explains why she does all this,that means,HOORAY!your problemo is solved!ahahaha,is that a good answer???
2007-03-03 18:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ayesha Q. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋