I love getting pushed around do i need help?

Question

I don't know why, but i love getting treated like a *****. When people push or hurt me i want them to do it again. I love people being agressive and rough with me. But i also love hurting people just as much. Is this normal?

Answer 1

Uh, no it's not, but than again it is. You're an obvious masochist.

Answer 2

A lot of people enjoy agressiveness or roughness in a playful manner. But it should only be done by someone you trust and under the condition that it can be ended when you say so.
Play hurt can be okay. Getting hurt is not normal.

Answer 3

The DSM-IV (Which is the best reference there is for this kind of thing) says that to be abnormal you must satisfy a mix of these criteria: (No single one will do)

1) Distance from social norms
2) Distress in everyday life
3) Danger to self or others
4) Dsyfunction in everyday life. (Very different from #2)\

So basically, if these 'likes' involve:

A) Something that is dangerous (Could cause permanent injury)

or

B) So distracting you can't work and live normally

or

C) So painful you feel miserable often

Then you need to seek expert advice. If you don't have any of those symptoms, you *should* be ok. Of course, see a psychiatrist if anything gets out of hand.

Answer 4

Hurting people is wrong. Just because you like getting hurt, does not mean other people like getting hurt. I hope that you understand that. But for you, if you truly enjoy getting pushed around and hurt, just be careful that you don't end up killing yourself or in a hospital.

Answer 5

It would be okay in play with an understanding that it is play, but if it's all you want, and you are not comfortable being treated with love and respect, you should look deeply and ask yourself why. Sometimes it's good to talk with a professional to help uncover the roots of such feelings.

Answer 6

No you're just making things worse. You're just passing it on to others and you end up creating a vicious cycle of people pushing others around and people getting hurt. Get help or pour your energies into something fun and productive like taking up a new sport like surfing or tennis.

Answer 7

No, you just need a different kind of love. Find yourself a dominant who loves you back (you will know when you find it) then you will be getting what you need at home and you won't need to seek it with strangers. You will then function normally in everyday life in the outer world, getting what you need at home. Hope this makes sense and helps.

Answer 8

I wouldnt say that your condition is normal but not bad if thats the way u want to feel go right ahead, but its not so good to love to hurt other people now thats just wrong.

Answer 9

Most people are the exact opposite, maybe your doing that out of revenge. Someone hurt you in the past?
The only problem is that your hurting the wrong people.

Answer 10

It's not normal for a Midwest girl. It sounds like maybe you have a lot of hostility in you? Think about where that's coming from. If you worked through this, you'd be a happier person overall.

Answer 11

It feels like the Husky has a extra dominant character, collectively as the Pit is extra submissive. you prefer this once you have extra advantageous than one canines. as long because of the fact the Husky isn't consistently berating and tormenting the Pit pup, and the two are turning out to be regular exercising, education, and socialization, and specially else, they comprehend you and your roommate as their %. leaders, you mustn't have a concern. do exactly not tolerate the two domestic dog beating up on the different.