During our high school play rehearsal, I came out to two of my crushes, who I like equally. I'm a 17 y/o gay guy and they're also both gay. After the rehearsal, one of them dragged me backstage and offered me my first kiss. I said yes and we kissed. The next day, when I was still shocked about what happened, the other guy asked me out on a date! I was very confused and I said yes because I couldn't resist. The next day, we went out again but the whole time I couldn't stop thinking about the guy #1 who kissed me. That's when I realized that I made a huge mistake about going out with guy #2 twice because guy #1 made a better impression and I like him more.
Now, I don't know how to end the relationship with guy #2 so I can be with guy #1. I know it will hurt him but I'm the one who is unhappy.
I don't know what to do because I've never been in a relationship before. Help me please.
2007-03-03 18:09:20 · 4 answers · asked by Gomenasai 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not that easy to let #2 go because we were cuddling and holding hands. He said he really likes me and I'm afraid I made him expect too much.
I didn't mean to be a horrible person and I'm really ashamed of myself for playing with a persons heart like that.
If I dump him for that reason, I wouldn't feel right to me. But I want guy #1 so bad.
2007-03-03 18:48:25 · update #1
Follow your heart. If guy #1 is who you are into then be fair and let guy #2 go. Just tell him that your dates have been fun but you're interested in someone else. He may be hurt but the longer you string him along the worse it will hurt. Life's too short to settle. Go for your prize asap. Good luck to you.
2007-03-03 18:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have hardly got 'serious' just tell guy #2 that you don't think it's working. He'll be disappointed, maybe, but it's hardly a major thing.
2007-03-03 18:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by waggy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go out with both. Nobody said that you have to go out with one, and only one person?!
Hey, maybe all three can go out and engage in a Menous g trois!
(threesome). That could be fun!
2007-03-03 18:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by BMicheleM 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
honey just go for the one you love and be happy....hugs
2007-03-03 18:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋